Is it normal i feel i have 0 chances because she's a "cling on" with her bf?

93% Normal
5 Comments

Im a girl and yes I'm confused because I'm in love with my friend that has a bf. I am going to meet up with her in few months & confess how I have loved her for years! I have finally summoned up courage and always felt the need to do this. Thing is, her bf was going to come along too and I said cant u come alone ? She said she could but (bf name) comes with me everywhere, he's my co-piolot. I said that's lame, i don't feel comfortable around him, and its just one day. She said she was offended. Any how after going back & forth she agreed to meet alone, said she is excited. I'm really worried and scared about telling her ! I'm not just saying this but her bf is a low life cheat scum bag and I know I would love & treat her way better !! Do I stand a chance? I feel I have 0 chances considering she follows her bf every where :/?

Voting Results
93% Normal
Based on 15 votes (14 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 5 )
  • CountessDouche
    8 years ago

    What you're doing takes balls. At least you won't have to wonder what if...

    Having said that, if she has a boyfriend whom she's infatuated enough with to bring him everywhere, then your chances aren't great. Before you put yourself out there, you need to brace yourself. You need to make peace with the possibility of things not working out. You need to have a plan about how you will handle things.

    Risks in life are a beautiful thing, but it's not wise to take them if you would fall to pieces when things don't go your way.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I'm grateful to have some sound advice! Thanks heaps!! I have been infatuated with her and then I started to feel things which was super difficult to deal with! I will tell her, but I won't hold my breath...:/

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • GG19
    8 years ago

    Good luck and you have a chance I know you do.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Thanks, I really hope she doesn't freak out!

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
        -
      • GG19
        8 years ago

        Welkome and my gf was shy to when she asked me but LGBT is bigger then ever now good luck.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0