Is it normal i feel very behind?

Some people don't need to drive. Public transport etc. It's no big deal.

Having a kid at 19 is not an achievement. It's like these wierdos who think losing their virginity is a competition. They're financially strapped to that kid and it will drain all their emotional energy. They're presumably not married, and I'm guessing in 90% of the cases the relationship with the bf/gf doesn't last, and so you have single parent households, child support, absent dads, etc.

You're young. Enjoy life. Don't do stupid shit because other people are.

Be happy you don't have kids. When I was 19, I knew people who had 2-5 kids already, and despite the fact that they acted happy, they admitted to me they were miserable and were tired of pissing away money on them.

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College is a type of chaos, and your feeling of being overwhelmed and behind your peers is a sign that you aren't as competent as you feel you should be. You'll learn to appreciate just how good of a feeling this is, because it will guide you towards improvement if you let it. Or you can try to ignore it and see where that gets you.

You need to articulate what exactly you're afraid of and what you don't think you're capable of. Not to me, but to yourself. I don't know what you need to do, but you know 100% exactly what it is.

Because it's the stuff you don't want to do.

I used to be a lot like you. SO much like you, actually. It all came together with time. Everyone moves at a different pace, and you're still young.

First off, there's absolutely nothing wrong with not having kids or needing help on certain things from your parents at 19. Very few people are fully independent at that age with absolutely no help from anyone. I got my driver's license two months before I turned 18 and got my first real job at 19. I was very nervous about driving, but found out that it's mostly common sense and that as long as you know how to follow traffic rules and pay attention to your surroundings, it's pretty simple. It's very nerve wracking at first, and that's okay and very normal. My first job was at 19 and was your average first job, and I did fine with that too. Just do what you're told, be honest, and do the best job you can do. Fear really makes us blow some of these things way out of proportion and seem much scarier than they really are.

I am 24 and still improving my social skills every day. As someone who was incredibly socially awkward and had crippling shyness as a teenager, it's been a work in progress, but I think I've done very well. That will also come with time, building your confidence by doing positive things for yourself and finding success in them, and practice.

I was also thought to have Asperger's syndrome and was misdiagnosed, and this misdiagnosis caused me to be put on medications that did nothing but serious harm for me, so I would be careful with that. Not that your experience is going to be the same as mine, but that is just my experience. I think we all have our idiosyncrasies and progress at our own levels, and there's nothing at all that strikes me as abnormal about what you've described. You sound like a late bloomer like I was, which isn't really a bad thing because you get to watch your peers go through things you haven't reached yet and learn from their successes and mistakes, which to me better prepares you.

You've got nothing to worry about friend. You're in college which is great because that means you're going somewhere in life. If you don't need to drive then don't. It's expensive and there's no point if you don't need it. I have to have a car now because I live out in the sticks and I have kids to ferry about, but if there was a way that I could manage without my car then I definitely would get rid of it.

Also don't compare yourself to a 19 year old who has kids. No offense to them but that's usually not a good thing. Ideally you won't have kids until you've met the person you're planning on spending the rest of your life with, and you've got a good stable income that's enough to support your family.

Just keep your head down at college and do what makes you happy. No good comes from comparing yourself to others

Sounds like you have a great Mom. Cherish it.

Never compare yourself to others. Just go at your own pace and enjoy life.

You are so young! You have your whole life ahead! I would say to try to get some training/internship for now (3 or 6 months) it will benefit you when finding a job, this is when you will develop as you wish I believe :) Good luck and be easy on yourself, don't blame your mom but rather be appreciative for her efforts while doing your own thing. I feel you cause my father literally did everything for me that I felt so not capable of doing anything without him, but it is not true. Our parents just don't know any better, they just want to help us as much as they can. Help them too by taking steps towards depending on yourself, take baby steps, you can do it.. and again, YOU ARE SO FREAKING YOUNG! Don't sweat it :) cheers

Im guessing you meant youre asocial and not antisocial,these two words have been used interchangeably a lot but are very different in meanings,an anti social person is in the same category with a sociopath or even a psychopath

You're mom must love you a lot. Is there any particular reason why you haven't learned how to drive an automobile?

Its normal.

Very normal.