Is it normal i hate when guys from tinder look me up

I am on tinder sometimes because my family needs me to have a boyfriend so badly... (I dont want it).
I dont check it so often. Today a guy added me on facebook. He could because we have a mutual friend (I have turned friend request off for people without mutual friends). I recognized him as a guy I know lives in my town. I also recognized him as a guy I blocked on instagram last week because he was looking at my instagram stories. I dont like when someone in my town looks at my instagram without following or DM'ing me. I feel like they are stalking me just checking me out in silence.
I asked him "hi?". He told me he matched with me on tinder and I put in my profile on tinder I am not active there often so he figured he would look me up on social media because he wanted to talk to me SO BADLY for some reason. I was like wow okay...
I do NOT appreciate. Many people link their instagram to their tinder profile but I do NOT and that is for a REASON... I do not want creepy tinder people on my instagram or facebook and I do NOT think its okay to just match with someone then look them up everywhere and it makes me think how much of a stalker the person is like how did he even manage to find my social medias based on my first name only and why did he think its okay to snoop around when we have never even talked!... I've had this happen before! Its how me and my abusive first ever boyfriend met... I had a crush on him in school but I didnt think he liked me he was kinda popular oh well at least 'outgoing'... but turns out he liked me too but he didnt know anything about me like even my name but he managed to "track me down" as he put it and then added me on facebook talked to me there and admitted the lengths he went to in order to find me. When you are a teenager you do not understand what is creepy... Ive had guys in my adulthood do this as well and they were guys from tinder as well that I didnt even match with but they still tracked me down... I do not appreciate thi.s...