Is it normal i keep getting approached by daddys?

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I keep getting old men after me and I not sure why. My old retired boss has been trying to bang me and he is 60. My 48 year old coworker is going to prison has approached me for marriage. I got approached by two different business owners while drinking at one of the local bars. I not sure what screams boner to these people. I not even flashy. I dress extremly conservativley and I smoke and drink alone when I go out. I know every supervisor since I am local and everyone knows each other if they work food service or retail. I also managed a resturaunt before it shut down. I am 28 but I look about 19. What am I doing that is telling these wierdos im down to bang someone my fathers age?

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  • Tommythecaty
    1 year ago

    “I am 28 but I look about 19”

    That’s a weirdly specific age to “look” but ok 🤣

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      I am going off what I been told. I know I look younger than I actually am. Which it has a lot to do with the fact I am short, I am thin and I do not have a lot of strong features that give any apparent gender. Certain races tend to have very neutral features and so look very young.

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      • Tommythecaty
        1 year ago

        I think you definitely look 18 and a half. Or maybe 19 and three quarters 🤣

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  • raisinbran
    1 year ago

    You may think you look 19 but have the brain of a 13 year old. Get over it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      No, I have been told this. I not just saying it cuase I think its great to look younger. Looking younger also makes it harder to be taken serious. But I not sure how to look older as its not really a choice what we look like. If you look physically younger you can not help that. Thats like saying someone naturually having dark skin activley chose that. Its not a choice idiot. Some people get a tan but some people are just that way.

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  • olderdude-xx
    1 year ago

    Likely just acting normal.

    Unfortunately, many men of many age ranges are looking for someone for sex... and they at least ask.

    In my mind they are doing it totally wrong. They should instead ask about your interest and dreams... and just be a friend who is interested in you for a while... and then ask after some kind of real friendship has developed.

    Of course, in about 80% of the time no level of friendship will develop for various reasons related to personality and chemistry. The of the remaining 20%, likely only 1/3 are interested in a potential sexual relationship with them.

    But, the advantage of the method is that it's not likely to be a one night stand or a fling... and last for a while.

    Of course, lazy people are everywhere (and woman have their fair share as well). I just wish more men would show more effort at trying to develop a real relationship first. I do know that the Ladies really appreciate those that do.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      These people are old enough to be my dad. Why cant they find anyone thier age?

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      • oldgoat65
        1 year ago

        Because women their own age have let themselves go and look and act like Walmart lowlifes

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      • RoseIsabella
        1 year ago

        ... because they are disgusting, lecherous, old creepers. I'm sorry that these pieces of shit are sexually harassing you!

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      • olderdude-xx
        1 year ago

        Because that would take work on their part - and they cannot fool or interest woman their age based on their actual situation and life stories.

        I also note that if they were actually fairly successful in life that they would have lots of Ladies of all ages interested in them and willing to be sexual partners if they told ladies that they would help them become more successful themselves (I've actually experienced those requests from the jail bait age and up in the last decade, and have turned all but one of them down - and that one took over 3 months to develop the friendship necessary for me to get involved in such a relationship).

        I suggest that you just ignore them and mark them down as people you don't want to associate with in your life (more than you may have to professionally).

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        • Ihidabody
          1 year ago

          Jesus. Success does not mean people will automatically take interest in you.

          Have you lost touch with reality?

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          • olderdude-xx
            1 year ago

            You are correct, however that does not mean I am wrong.

            In this case I believe that I understand this reality better than you having been the attention of such attraction for many years because of my success prior to Covid-19 mucking up my life. Not that I ever found a suitable GF for me from those who were interested in me based on my success. I got really good at saying "no."

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            • Ihidabody
              1 year ago

              Okay, so you're not saying that success will guarantee you'll have women's interest?

              So I don't understand. What's your point?

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  • farkelu
    1 year ago

    You're not saying or doing anything wrong, other than looking very young for your age. And men find attractive young women... well, attractive. It's biological to seek out those who are young and most likely to bear one's offspring, even if we as a species have managed to hide that impulse somewhat.

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  • Ummitsstillme
    1 year ago

    Tell them to fuck off

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  • Ihidabody
    1 year ago

    Old perverted men like this deserve every bad thing imaginable.

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    • RoseIsabella
      1 year ago

      I'm right there with you 100%!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      So its not something I am doing?

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      • Ihidabody
        1 year ago

        Nope, doesn't seem like it.

        They're just stupid perverted guys that think they need to get in bed with every girl they see. No matter what you do, they will always try to get in your pants. You can be the most modest woman out there and they will still be dirty, filthy old men.

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      • RoseIsabella
        1 year ago

        You could buy some pepper spray, and maybe a taser?

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        • SmokesTheScrapper
          1 year ago

          Taser sounds fun. Grill the ol perverts, OP! Go fer it!

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