Is it normal i kind if losing my sympathy for addicts

I really have no sympathy anymore. My idiot little brother is basically brian Griffin. Has the same self entitled attitude and in general is worthless and doesn't mind making others take care of him. They decided to become an alcoholic at age 21. Which I specifically told them not to do. I also met a few addicts in the town I am in. They refuse to get a job and very clingy. I tried getting them jobs with my company but they would rather be homeless or live in their car. Part of the motivation being I needed a roommate to pay the other half of rent but it would also help them better themselves. I also been self medicating with whiskey to deal with insomnia and past trauma. However, it doesn't matter how drunk I get. I still get up the next morning and come to work and no one really ever realizes I just got wasted the night before. So I not saying recreational drugs are an issue but why the hell wont these idiots get a damn job and mooch off parents or live in a car. Than they harrase me when at work and I like "Idiot I have a job. I can't message you. You should grow the hell up and get one too!" Like people judge strippers and hookers but at least these people have money and are working. Of course its sex work but like they are doing something. They not mooching off everyone so they can score some liquor or pot like a FUCKING jackass.

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  • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet

    Mother's a pill popper her veins are so rotted from melting down & injecting them that her left leg is starting to rot as well, I quit caring after I saved her the last time she overdosed with CPR (one of her eyes exploding during the process) & she went right back to doing them when she got out of the ER (where she almost died 6 times in 2 days)

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    • RoseIsabella

      Eye exploding? 😱

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      • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet

        Her blood pressure was on par with a firehose is the only reason I can think of why that happened.

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        • RoseIsabella

          Wow! Yeah, that's pretty terrifying.

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  • DADNSCAL

    I really can relate. My stepdad was an alcoholic, and living with him was a nightmare. It gets so enraging and frustrating, you just want to leave. Especially when they do nothing to get help. My stepdad finally went to AA after my sister and I moved out, and my mother left him for a while. The resentment still persisted through.

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  • ellnell

    I have no sympathy for them and never will.
    They sit around and make a mess and they have no respect.
    We had an influx of those human parasites last summer in my neighbourhood,
    they sat on the parking lot outside all summer and some of them drove, most likely not sober but can't prove that really, and there's kids everywhere here. One of them had a total fit and crashed into multiple cars while trying to back out of his spot, the police came and luckily one neighbour filmed the whole incident. Some people have also reported finding needles in bushes which is dangerous because kids play everywhere here but those parasites just toss their disgusting needles everywhere and they also beat up an elderly man in broad daylight.
    So yeah, no sympathy and I don't think they deserve it unless they genuienly want to get out of it or at least don't act like jackasses threatning others, throwing needles and driving under the influence.

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  • bigbudchonga

    I'm an ex addict, dude. I can understand why you don't have sympathy for them. I have sympathy for the ones who are in so deep that their addiction is a full time job, but you allude to something that's true. Addicts can be functional members of society with jobs; many of them just prefer not to.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    I lost sympathy for drug addicts a while back. I've had cousins, coworkers, and friends who did heavy drugs. They acted like the world owed them and they refused to work any kind of job. They leeched off their parents or anyone they could find. Some of them went on to have kids, but never took care of them. Shit like that is why I don't drink, smoke weed, or take any kind of drug. If it's going to turn me into a deadbeat, I'll happily pass.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    If they're working everyday and are productive I dont care. But if they wont work and wont take a job I feel little pity on them.

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    • That is kind of my piont.

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  • Whatintarnation

    I guess I would question the environment these folks grew up in first. Deadbeat parents usually make deadbeat kids. Also, the peers they hung out with at a young age. If you want to be more than a loser, you have to have more than an inner drive. You also need to work to cultivate relationships with people going places. At least that is what I have observed from those around me. If they're unwilling to change though, there is little you can do. Also, I'd talk to a professional instead of trying to dull your pain with alcohol. That will not lead you to any place good. Good luck.

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    • Naw not really. I come from a toxic family and grew up in a defeating toxic environment. I left first chance I could, got a job and rent a room on my own. That was all drive. I literally had to babysit my PARENTS from age 8.

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      • Whatintarnation

        Dang that sucks. Well good for you for pulling yourself up.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Sounds like you grew up in a very toxic, and dysfunctional family of origin.

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  • Tommythecaty

    While you have legitimate points you are almost certainly an insufferable jackass.

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    • What are you basing this on though?

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      • Tommythecaty

        On your post.

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        • How am I the insufferable one? I dont harasse people with desperate texts because I need someone join a game of UNO and leave 10 voicemails while they are at work. How is that okay behavior?

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          • Tommythecaty

            You whine and complain about it with a very noticeable touch of self righteousness. It’s sounds like a wish to be controlling, rather than help.

            If you go to far to one side of any spectrum you end up an opposite, but equally insufferable, person.

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  • Jamie_Sulky

    I feel like this also goes for people that aren't necessarily addicted to a substance. anyone who is unwilling to be a functioning member of society and escapes their problems with something, whether its gaming, anime, or porn. It's depressing, and I can't fault them too much either. People who end up like that are usually people that are mentally unwell. I've smoked and drank alcohol but never have I been addicted. And the reason why is simple: i never need it. Its a luxery. Same with gaming, which I rarely partake in. It's never a coping mechanism. And for such a feeble thing to be a coping mechanism, there must be very little that life brings to the table. Theres no point getting pissed off at em. Just live your life, and hopefully they realise one day they need to get their act together.

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    • Why would I not be pissed off at them when they purposely ruin everyone elses lives and inconvenience everyone else? When you won't get ur shit together and it makes my life harder its a problem. I literally had a friend who obsessively text me at work. He had no job since he got kicked out of the AA program he was going to for drinking and lost his job. I finally cut them off since if you can not respect some people work for a living. You are a parasite. Why would this not piss someone off? Im not gonna lose my job because this idiots a desperate alcoholic

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