Is it normal i'm stronger than my boyfriend?

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This isn't a troll fetish post. When there are things he can't lift, he asks me to do it. If he can't open a jar, he asks me. I can easily pin him down and he has a hard time getting out. He also seems to really like how I look in a tank top and likes to feel my muscles. I've tried getting him to exercise with me, but he can't do much with my dumbells(each individual dumb bell ranges from 3 pounds to 20). He just gets tired out. Is it normal I'm stronger? I've got no issue with it. I'm kind of concerned for his health though.

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Does he spend a lot of time playing video games, and watching anime?

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  • bigbudchonga
    4 years ago

    Not normal. I think the statistic is something like 1/10 women are stronger than the average man.

    The important thing is, is he like a generally small, weedy guy, or is he a normalish size and just really unhealthy, and are you conversely really fit and well physically proportioned for strength? If he's naturally, physically poorly proportioned, or you're naturally, physically strong then I wouldn't worry; however, if he's really fat, or just generally very physically unfit then I would try and keep pushing him.

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  • curious-bunny
    4 years ago

    Its normal some men are bitches. If I'm ever stronger than a guy in interested in I'll immediately loose interest cause I'm not that strong but I can gi all day

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    I would be concerned for his health, no nessecarily because he is weaker than you, but more because he can't do much with 20 pounds. I am also curios how you train. I am pretty strong myself with a 575 squat, 615 deadlift and 295 bench press. Women who lift are sexy as fuck!

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  • trexagireve
    4 years ago

    If you want him to be stronger use your strength to train him, punish him for being so weak

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  • Indigo1
    4 years ago

    I had a gf once that always remarked on how she was physically stronger then me, but when we'd play wrestle in bed or we needed to move something heavy , i always came out on top. she continued to say it anyway though, i mean not that often but we'd laugh about it because i'd wrestle her and win but she wouldn't ever admit it... that i was stronger than her.

    Not saying that's what is happening with you and your boy, just sharing. I'd say it's normal to some degree, it's obviously not always the case that the man is physically stronger than his female s/o, I say so long has he keeps relatively healthy there is no problem really. Unless...of course you see a problem with it... i mean you're the one dating him.

    Does it bother you?
    Would you prefer him be physically stronger than you?

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  • CDmale4fem
    4 years ago

    I'm thinking he loves having you dominate him. If you notice him getting aroused when you pin him down then that's probably his thing.

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  • DeadRatKing
    4 years ago

    I'm 5'4 and 511 pounds and nearly immobile. Never mind helping me open a jar, my girlfriend wipes my arse for me. It's normal. My girlfriend pretty much does everything that requires any physical effort because of my "weight problem". Which I don't think is really a problem honestly

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    Wow, most adults can lift more than 20 pounds. You have to be able to lift 50 for a lot of jobs, even in retail. I'd be concerned for his health too.

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  • megadriver
    4 years ago

    What man can't lift 20lbs weights? That's just sad.

    He must be one of those skinny straw men types that have a muscle girl fetish...

    But I guess it's normal. You train, you are stronger. I believe a man should be able to bench press at least 60kg. Women are free to do as they please.

    I'm happy to say I'm much stronger than my girlfriend... She is very skinny and can't even lift full grocery bags to the table and I'm ok with that.

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