Is it normal i'm worried i'm losing my looks at age 28?

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I just have thie fear I'm aging not gracefully. I have an anxiety disorder and haven't been able to cure myself or afford quality therapy, I live week to week.
I have abandonment issues, ptsd, a element of general and social anxiety alone with ocd traits.
I feel I am mind fckd its like my head is on auto pilot.
Some days I feel confident in myself and other days i feel completely the opposite and I feel unattractive and focus on my flaws eg my smile lines and the fact I look to skinny imo :/
I just feel unattractive sometimes especially if I don't do my hair or a small amount of make up.
I don't even know how to always like my image and face ? Like how ?
I don't feel as cute looking as I was at age 19.
I feel depressed and lonely and overall I belive I am an average looking female

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Cuntsiclestick

2 years ago

The thing is even the people who age gracefully and look younger for their age will eventually have it all catch up to them. No one is safe from aging. In the end we're all going to be that old, saggy, wrinkly, ugly person who wishes they were 28 again. Looks don't mean shit in the end. What will matter is what you did in life. Instead of focusing on the past, focus on what you're doing now at 28. Find ways to have fun and make good memories.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  2 years ago
  
  Thank u cunt sicle
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    2 years ago
    
    Or maybe your username should be changed to cuntsuccessful
    
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    - Cuntsiclestick
      
      2 years ago
      
      Thank you very much.
      :)
      
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Elroy7141

2 years ago

Embrace the change in your looks. Think of it as an achievement that your getting older. Some people don’t make it to your age, Iv had friends die in there 20’s and a cousin die when she was 12. So to be looking older is a sign of your achievement of actually getting older.
Also, certainly from my point of view as I’m getting older I’m finding older women attractive (I’m 38) I used to look at people in there late 30s and think “she’s hot for an older woman. Now I look at younger women and think….”she looks like a kid.” Just make fun memories and little achievements in the now so that your enjoying life now not looking back in the past.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  2 years ago
  
  Thanks very much!! This definitely helps and I appreciate your advice 🙏 ☺
  
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bubsy

2 years ago

Of course you're nowhere near as cute as you were at 19, you've spent 10 years since then doing little if any exercise, eating a diet filled with sugar and vegetable oils, and probably taking all sorts of chemically-altering drugs (birth control is a very popular one).

What a lot of people don't realize is this:
natural beauty = health (both physical and otherwise)

Mentally disturbed people, from bipolar disorders to pedophiles, always look ugly with very few exceptions.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  2 years ago
  
  Firstly, I want to state that assumptions are mother of ALL fuck ups so your presumptious opinion of me is flawed.
  In fact I am the opposite to what you state. I am fit and thin and have been skinny or thin ALL my life.
  Secondly- I am one of the few women to exist that knows the pill fucks with the hormones as well as contributes to making one less fertile, along with various other crap out there.
  Lastly, do not judge mental health you judgemental fool. Mental health at times can't be helped, it can stem from genetics, environmental factors and trauma.
  A vast majority of population struggle with mental health.
  My mum has severe depression, CPTSD, low thyroid. My sister has body dysmorphia, eating disorder, ocd and anxiety.
  My dad has been suicidal or at least has had the idealisation. I probably have bi polar. I definitely struggle with anxiety and depression for years and some mild ocd traits
  
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  - bubsy
    
    2 years ago
    
    It's entirely possible to be skinny or thin (whatever the difference is) and still be unhealthy. If your diet is anything standard to your age group, it's filled with fast food and junk. That's not giving your body the nutrients it needs, and it'll show over the course of 10 years.
    
    I'm glad you're aware of the dangers that come with altering your hormones for years on end via birth control.
    
    natural beauty = health (both physical and otherwise)
    
    Regardless of the reason you want to attribute to it, you are mentally unhealthy. This unhealth reflects in your body and on your face. If you're interested in why, look into Physiognomy. It's controversial stuff, but then again so is a lot of science in 2021.
    
    Like a fever is a symptom of a cold, you don't want to take medicine for the fever (that won't address the root cause). Beauty is a symptom of health. Health is comprised of both physical and mental aspects.
    
    The mental aspects of our health are at the mercy of the physical aspects of our health. It's why a man with low testosterone is prone to depression, and why many are much happier in the mornings after a cup of coffee.
    
    This is all a lot of words to say this: fix your physical health, get some blood work done and find out what your underlying issues are. Or you'll only continue down this path.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      2 years ago
      
      Dude say this to 90% of the population lmao
      
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