Is it normal i think home schooling is inferior

A big part of school is to learn to interact in both good and not so good situations and figure out how to deal with all types of people. Most home schooled children are denied realistic settings and are often behind in their studies anyway. Not to mention most parents don't have teacher training (except in rare situations). Home school parents are overly sheltering their kids and doing them a disservice.

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  • unionclocks

    Firstly, you're wrong about "A big part of school is to learn to interact in both good and not so good situations and figure out how to deal with all types of people." that in relevance to homeschooled kids not getting that.
    Homeschooled kids MUST find a way to socialize, honestly public school foces it buut if a kid aint in school what are they gonna do all day? nothing? They're gonna find some other kids to talk to - even if its like nieghbours after school, and theyre gonna go through the same things. If anything they could end up better off, since theres no school to support them they have to learn how to work/get into education quickly and almost alone, no support to help them with things like resumes or even suggestions of work experience apart from what the parents give (most schools have careers advisors which woudl do this) so if theyre not social they wont succeed.
    In a school, you get qualifications. This is free for like highschool. A homeshcooled child CAN take the same exams and get exactly the same qualifications as a school child, but itll cost the parents money. Also, many parents who chose to homeschool bring in tutors for the stuff they can't teach, so the child doesn't get a bad education. (In the UK at least universities and colleges will still accept homeschooled students and people without qualifications from exams too providing they can prove theyre still a good worker.)
    Behind on their studies? That really depends on whos doing it. Not all homeschooled students are dumb, i for one know homeshcooled kids who're way smarter than me, because they were schooled well and had a lot more freedome to puruse knowledge over things they enjoy.

    You may notice, a lot of what i say is situational, and it is. IMO, for SOME people, homeschooling is way more effective, depending on the person and family. For others, its not the best. If the kid isn't sociable nor willing to work, and if the parents dont know a hting about teaching, homeschooling just won't work. But if the situation is right, they will go further than a student in a shcool.

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  • thegypsysailor

    If you want an education in the US, you aren't going to get it in the public 'babysitting' system. That's all the American educational system is any more; just day care for working parents.
    What education there is, the 'No child left behind' system, teaches to the stupidest kid in the class, which completely removes the challenge of learning, for all but the least intelligent.
    There are some excellent home schooling courses, like Calvert, that have been the standard for families in the diplomatic corps and others who travel a lot, for a hundred years.
    From what I read on here (and other places), the hell that is high school is an experience that those who are a little bit different need many years to recover from, if they ever can. Why you would think yourself better off in that system is beyond my understanding, unless you think you would have been a cheerleader or first string jock (one of the ;cool kids').

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    • Steve2.0

      If you need so much time to "recover" from high school, you're really fucking weak.

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      • thegypsysailor

        Read the posts. Literally hundreds over the last two years from those who were mentally traumatized by high school to the point they are social misfits for years afterwards.
        However, I do agree with you 100% on this one. Where is the strength that Americans had back when they were "winning the west", crossing the country in covered wagons and striving to survive in the harshest conditions?
        What's a little bullying in school compared to the struggle to survive, in those days?

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    • Cause there's plenty of jocks/ sluts aka assholes on real life so you might want your kids to learn how to deal with them before adulthood.

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      • RoyRogers

        Yeah I am sure getting your ass kicked, staplers thrown at your head, and bullied to the point of shooting up the school is helpful to a young mind. Please explain how you believe that type of shit is healthy? Oh not to mention rape, which in fact is very high among teenagers since that is when they are immature and sexually active.

        You are going to be a GREAT PARENT I can just tell. For the record being a slut and a druggy does not get you a lot of places in the real world. Unless you plan on going into stuff like the entertainment fields. So the rest of the kids are just going hoping not to get bullied and drugged up since the schools want to squeeze more money out of them.

        Being Mature gets you no where in public school but being mature get you everywhere in the real world. However since school is ran by immature children generally people in it have fucked up priorities. So you probably think its better to have a bunch of pregnant 16 year old, druggy drop outs doing blow job for crack, and more column kids shooting up the kids each week. You are a fucking moron and its pathetic that you dare call yourself a human. If you want to live in shit go live in shit but dont ask the rest of us to go in a SHITHOLE WITH YOU you piece of trash.

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        • RoyRogers

          We got a bunch of home-schooled and independent study kids transfer in when I was in school and they were 3 grades above the level they should be. So they were a lot smarter. You think its better to get beaten, bullied, and fail at life but I dont really think this is a future we should be inspiring. We should care about education. Not abusing children and taking away their future. You are the people who are wrong with this world, as you only aim to ruin it with your stupidity.

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      • thegypsysailor

        I'd prefer my kids got a great education, and that's what I tried for. One had a Swiss education and the other a very small (300 students) high school with lots of personal attention.
        I'm betting a good percentage of those kids didn't "learn to deal" at all, but were made to feel like shit, and still had to "learn to deal" later in life.

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    • NeofelisNebulosa

      Middle school was actually worse for me than high school, but yes, high school can be a terrible, cutthroat place. I know I certainly got screwed up emotionally during my high school years. But I think it prepared me for awful things in the future :P

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  • Arm0se

    You think that way because they are. Public school, or even private school i better than home school.

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  • NeofelisNebulosa

    I totally agree. Public school can really suck sometimes, but it's a more accurate reflection of real life. Schools allow kids to make friends as well as learn how people can be assholes.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Most parents fuck their kids up enough as it is without homeschooling. The only thing worse than homeschooling in most cases is homeschooling without television access. I disagree with the idea of people raising their kids in any old kinda way, children are a responsibility, but they aren't property.

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  • annaponce

    I agree with the statement that home schooling is inferior. Children should go to school, where they can understand and learn the principles and the philosophy of real life. Our children go to school not just for acquiring of specific knowledge, but to get life experience. School aims at making self-sufficient, creative and open-minded individuals capable for planning their future and taking major decisions. Education is not about lessons and poems in the textbooks, education is about lessons of life. And school is exactly that place, where our children study how to live life.

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  • dytrog

    Public schools are a damn joke. The teachers are afraid of the students. They don't get fired if all the kids get F's. I had a friend pass the 9'th grade that had never learned to read or write.

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    • Not all of them, just the really shitty ones. There are good schools around.

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  • Anal_Aladdin_Clooney

    Home schooling will result in a child brainwashed with all of his or her parent's neuroses about religion, and will be scientifically illiterate, proudly stating with certitude such pitiful and imbecilic contentions as "evolution is just a theory", without realizing that scientific nomenclature renders that statement as stupid as "evolution is just a conclusion based on observable and falsifiable evidence."

    In my work as an international lawyer, I encounter home-schooling as a major human rights issue, almost as serious as getting common bovine flesh Burkin Bags from Hermes instead of reptilian, like my husband George.

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    • ^ this!

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  • SkyScraperI

    I think you're right, kids should be interacting with other kids because it's so important to understand how to socialize and properly communicate. School gives them that opportunity

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  • I was home schooled for a bit due to a illness my junior year. I had a teacher that came to my house it wasn't my parents. I learned more in those three months then I ever thought about learning at my high school.. With anything there is pros and cons to both.

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    • But you were not home schooled exclusively.

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      • Of course not no. I was just stating that there is pros and cons to both. I feel you get more world experience/human interaction going to public schools, but as far as learning goes there are far better opportunities to learn through home-schooling.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    As someone who works in the public school system, I say that your statement is inherently flawed. If there is good instructional material, good teaching staff and good parental support, then chances are good that the student will succeed regardless of their environment.

    Where public schools fail is poor funding. Pure and simple. I don't care if you think every teacher should be as proficient as Socrates, providing instruction to 40 kids of diverse backgrounds is not an easy matter, especially is 25 of those 40 kids come from homes run by parents who either A) Are too busy working to have raised their kids to give a damn, B) Don't give a damn themselves, C) Don't have enough of an education to take it seriously or know hoe important it is or D) All of the above.

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    • So are you saying it's better for the messed up parents to teach their own kids?

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        That's not what I am saying at all. Not all parents are messed up. There are many good homeschooling programs out there and High School isn't the only place where children can learn how to interact with peers and overcome difficult situations. I don't think it's good for messed up parents to teach their own kids but I'm not going to judge the entire concept of homeschooling based off of the flaws of a few people.

        You also have to look at the positive in homeschooling. Many parents who home school ARE as qualified to be teachers as teachers are and sometimes are MORE qualified. Some of them are former teachers! Some of them have children with special needs and live in areas or situations that are not conducive to their kids receiving adequate services and accommodations for their particular set of needs.

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        • In those cases I can see the reason.

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