Is it normal i think "islamic modesty" like the hijab is anything but "modest"
I see things like the hijab (headscarf), niqab (face covering) etc as incredibly fake. It's a false performance of modesty, I almost look at it like it's a humblebrag.
There's nothing more attention-seeking than wearing a ridiculous-looking garment, that you know everyone is going to notice... because everyone has to see how "modest" you are. So while it might be modest physically, is it really humble behaviour? I don't think it is.
Seems to me that if a woman was serious about being modest, she'd throw on some slacks, a decent blouse and maybe a long cardigan. Then she'd shut up about it, because she does NOT want to draw attention to herself. That's "modesty", going out in public dressed like the dementors from Harry Potter is not modesty.