Is it normal i think it should be law to hit rude people with a stick?

So in other words, violence makes people behave. Have you left the house recently? Where is this proof that using violence towards others will make them respect you? Anyone who has even a smidgeon of real world knowledge can tell you that using violence against someone will make them fear you, sure, but respect you? No!

All you will achieve by making respectful people into violent human beings with a lack of self control will be lowering us to the level of said disrespectul human beins who act like animals rather than acting like civilised people. Your mentality is no better than the mentality of dictators who use violence as a form of control.

Obviously your knowledge of history and of basic psychology is flawed and possibly nonexistent so rather than posting 6 paragraphs correcting your statements quote by quote, I'll make it short and sweet: Using violence as a means of control will create a people that are angry and fearful, not respectful. If history is any indicator, said fearful individuals will eventually turn US into the uncivil animals we would rightfully be. In the end, using injustice to correct injustice will backfire as history has shown it to work out.

They actually use to do this in some schools and old churches or Catholic schools. They would say put out your hands and hit your hand with a long stick. Usually I think it was a yard stick(yard long ruler). Sometimes they would make you hold books for hours and if not you get hit.

You spout this asinine drivel at everyone that commented.

Fighting back with violence is only the answer for the greatest of fools. Anyone alive with even the tiniest shred of wisdom understands that violence begets violence. Hatred begets hatred. This is proven thousands of times over throughout history.

Physically hurting someone who hurt you shows the most absolute lack of respect one can possibly have. Because this person KNOWS what it is to be hurt. Because they have FELT the effects of being disrespected. To sink to such a pathetic level is to disrespect all that you learn through your suffering. It is the greatest lack of self-respect one could demonstrate. You become what you hate.

Violence has its place. That place is the very very last option possible when inaction will lead to those you love or care for getting hurt. When it is your ONLY option. If you use violence before that point, you have shown weakness and lost your self-respect, for you took the coward's way out.

No self-respecting person with any respect for other people visits violence on people out of vengeance. Respect is a two-way street, and if you can't be the better person and find a non-violent solution where one exists, you know nothing of respect.

I was a victim of severe bullying when I was growing up so I'm no stranger to being treated like less than shit and having nobody to listen to me. If you have any inner strength then nobody should ever get you to a point where you commit suicide most bullies are that way because they were bullied. You of course should defend yourself if somebody tries to hurt you physically but hitting somebody just because they said something about you is just escalating a problem. With enough thought on the situation you will realize that lashing out isn't necessary because they're just words, words from somebody you shouldn't vie for acceptance of or even listen to and feel bad because they're no better or worse than you are.