Is it normal i think its stupid financial aid assumes that parents care?
I understand a parent should care or should help. It does not mean they can or they will. Financial aid is meant to bridge the gap between what your family can afford. What makes them believe the parents are going to pay if no law says hey have to? Unlike in most movies a lot of parents dont save up a tuition when children are little and at 18 say "Oh heres your college fund".