Is it normal i took care of my bfs cat for a week now it wont leave me alone??

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Im a girl and live with my bf he went out of state for a week cause of work so ofc I had to take care of his cat. I wasnt mean or anything to the cat before it didnt bother me and i didnt bother it. so this month one week I fed it and changed its litter and petted it if it jumped on my lap when I watched tv or let it cuddle next to my body when I slept. Now my bfs back and the cat rarely goes to him. I go to the bathroom and the cat follows me even taking a shower it will sit and watch me even though it cant see through the shower curtain atleast I think it cant. If im out and come home the cat runs to me even if it was with my bf or sleeping and my bf laughs and says hes jealous and asks me what I did to the cat when he was gone but I did nothing!! I dont even like cats how the hell do I make this little pest leave me alone?

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  • Shrunk
    9 years ago | pl

    What's so bad about that?? Jeez... You seem a bit cold-hearted

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  • Jeaneathean
    9 years ago

    "Now my bfs back and the cat rarely goes to him. I go to the bathroom and the cat follows me even taking a shower it will sit and watch me even though it cant see through the shower curtain atleast I think it cant."

    Funny.

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      9 years ago

      I believed she may have helped that little kitty discover himself...

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Well I am not stupid it prolly cant see through but makes you wonder why sit there and like look at a damn curtain I check from the side curtain and its looking at me 10mins later I check again its still looking unmoved as if it wasnt a curtain but the telly

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      • Arm0se
        9 years ago

        It's probably just wondering what the fuck your doing. Cats don't shower you know? >.>

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      • Jeaneathean
        9 years ago

        Still funny.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    "My boy friend's cat and you're gonna get a greeting, hey la de la, my boy friend's cat." Sound's some old song. Wait, it is some old song.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Maybe the cat is disappointed that he left? Make sure from here on out that your boyfriend does all the feeding, and cat care so he can bond back with him again.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      He does all the feeding past 2 weeks I ddint touch the food or litter

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      • pixie44
        9 years ago

        Yea I agree with RoseIsabella sometimes animals get mad and act out at their owners. I honestly think he's trying to make your bf jealous lol. Seems weird but its been known to happen.

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  • ToxikIsntNormal
    8 years ago

    Perhaps the cat has a stronger sense of security when you're around or you treat it better than your boyfriend did/does. I would be mean to the cat. Just try to distract it and express your need to keep distance.

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  • CoolKid23
    9 years ago

    Maybe you should try telling it you need some more space. If it doesn't listen, then file a restraining order against it, but talk things through with it first.

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  • despuit
    9 years ago

    You want the cat to leave alone, ignore it, do nothing for it, teach it of the power of inflecting tonality into the very depth of its soul

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  • despuit
    9 years ago

    Just prefers your behaviourul interactions over his

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  • Ace09
    9 years ago

    U know, cats like females more than males, so maybe that's why?

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