Iin:i've dreamt of the boy next door twice.

85% Normal
2 Comments

Hiii.So I'll get straight to the point and give you a little background story on my situation.So this guy next door is somebody I've only talked to like 13 times for the three years I've lived here.My mother is very strict about dating and he doesn't quite fit her expectations.He's more laid back and chill in a way.I admit that he is cute.He got his braces off 2 years ago,so that ranked him up to hot.But I don't think I've actually ever liked him.So onto the dreams.

I've only had two dreams about him.The two of us are different races,and my mother isn't to fond of his.(I promise I'm not racist,He's Hispanic and I'm mixed)So in the first dream,I sneak over to his flat and he asks me out.I agree and we do basic couple things.I've never been in his flat before but in my dream it wasn't blurred out I could perfectly see every detail of his room.I'd never even stepped on his welcoming rug.

In the second dream,(since we're on the holidays)my mother goes and visits his family.They are gathered outside playing music and welcoming family.I stand on my front porch and watch my mother nervously.(I know this is very detailed but I had the dream last night and decided to ask you guys)He comes out of his flat and stands by his mailbox discreetly,sending me flirtatious winks and stuff.He comes over to my flat,pretending to be greeting me for the first time,I bring him inside of my flat and we sit on the sofa tickling each other,when my flat door is opening,I wake up really really really hot.

Sorry for the long story but I need a little bit of guidance.(I'm still not sure of my feelings but I hope you don't mind if I share another critical detail.)

At my neighborhood,we have a pool,so one day me and my closest friend are there on the relaxation chairs,when he and his family arrive.At first we all mind our business.But they come over one by one asking me questions.The guy himself asked me what school I've been attending and more basic stuff.But I think he spoke to his family about me because they asked me if I wanted to date him.I said I couldn't answer that and they asked me if I thought he was unattractive.I was dumbfounded but tried to not drop the fact that I thought he was hot,considering that was the only time I'd seen him shirtless and wet.

Voting Results
85% Normal
Based on 13 votes (11 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 2 )
  • KingTermite
    8 years ago

    tl;dr.

    I feel like you lied to us when you said you'd get right to the point. I read that, then I saw 4 dense paragraphs and realised you didn't understand what getting to the point meant. And dreams have no actual meaning, so it's a non-starter all the way.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • AverageJoe28
    8 years ago

    If his family asked if you wanted to date him, I feel that he more than likely has been talking about you with them, which is a good sign... It means he recognizes he perhaps has a crush on you!!:D Don't be afraid to make the first move, get his social media, e-amil, etc... cell number...Your neighbours( It's just casual after all;)

    Give it a shot! Why not go on a date? As long as there is mutual respect if it does not work out, who is to judge.... you never know unless you try, the worst he can say is no...Or perhaps not ready.

    Don't be afraid!! But id this form is too direct for you, maybe ask your family to invite them over for the next thanksgiving or christmas celebration, or a big holiday you may celebrate, you could ask him there! Or ask him casually if he has a girlfriend...Theres nothing weird about it,. you are just curious afterall;)

    Goodluck girl!!!<3

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0