Is it normal i want to be intimate slowly?

My recent experiences making out with people have all seemed rushed as fuck.

When I was 18 and started making girls cum and vice versa I felt like we could spend all day with each other like we had nothing else to do. We could just be naked with each other and would talk so much. The whole time saying what we liked and what we thought and how everything felt. I miss it so much I wanna cry.

Now it will still take hours but I feel like girls just want to fuck and like people want to go to sleep or have shit to do.

I wanna feel like it can last forever and I can really explain to a girl everything like we can really care to do exactly what we like. And be so open like before. I miss that