Is it normal i was told i looked like a schoolgirl at work?

I was working at my local pub, it usually has regular customers in and some new customers, and one of the men quite likes looking at me - which is kind of flattering because he's not a bad guy and he has a good sense of humour.

So because it was a Saturday night, I dressed up a bit, I had on a white tunic top (v neck reaching near my chest) that had a little black and white ruffle and went to mid thigh, bunching in a bit at the waist and a bit snug above the waist, but loosening near my stomach. I also had on black jeans and black boots - and I thought I looked quite presentable.

This man looked me up and down - and I could tell he was doing that - and then after a short while, he told me that I looked like a schoolgirl, and I was genuinely speechless, and the local customer next to him was quite surprised.

I'm just curious, was it meant in a sexual way (he is over twice my age) or was it meant as a compliment, or was he saying I genuinely looked too young?

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57% Normal
Based on 21 votes (12 yes)
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Comments ( 6 )
  • ygrowup

    You should take this as a compliment, and make the most of your attributes

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  • JD777

    As a guy, I can't imagine telling a woman she "looked like a school girl" would be a compliment. Instead, it sounds either demeaning or creepy. For the record, I think fitted tunic tops with ruffles can be sexy and fine for a woman of any age.

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  • howaminotmyself

    I'm going with too young since you weren't wearing a plaid skirt.

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    • Umm...awkward

      Too young, but "school girl" is usually meant in a sexual way.

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    • Lariii

      Because I was standing behind the bar, I wasn't sure if he could see my legs. And if it's too young, why was he checking me out?

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      • noid

        Because that's what men do

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