Is it normal if my friend acts passive-aggressive when i can't hang out with her?

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I've been best friends with this girl for 3 years now. I am the president of a council, I work regular 7am to 1pm shifts and I have younger siblings who I have to take care of once I head back home, while my best friend is an only child, and isn't working at the moment. I've always made enough time to call her throughout this entire pandemic but now that September is approaching, I must help my siblings prepare and help them before they head back to school. I don't have enough time to call her since I am very exhausted at the end of the day. She's become very passive-aggressive towards me and tells me that I'm always busy (I actually am). I told her about my situation and the responsibilities I have, and all she does is mock me about it.

TL;DR : I have a very full schedule, and I am very exhausted at the end of every day while my friend has an empty schedule. My friend gets upset that I won't make time for her even after I explained the duties I have.

Is this normal behaviour?

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Based on 9 votes (1 yes)
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  • Kirlia
    3 years ago

    Your friend misses you but in an unhealthy way. I am the same as her and I’m telling you, it’s bad. I try not to be that way though. It’s something I am working on.

    But it’s very clingy, unhealthy, annoying, and can even be obsessive. She’ll get angry at you because she can’t be with you or spend time with you.

    She needs to find something in life, to keep her busy or to keep her mind away from you. She needs to find a hobby or something.

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  • suckerberg
    3 years ago

    Drop her. Trust me. I should've done that to my friend of 9 years in highschool but I didn't because I can't say no to anything. Now, if I do have to say no to her, I'll have to be offline for at least a week so I don't see any negative things she posts about me or have my other friends back her up and confront me. It's childish but we've been friends for so long that its almost too late.

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    No, your friend sounds very clingy and annoying. Does she not have other friends, or at least, any hobbies? And her mocking you sounds like she's incredibly jealous too. I would ditch that friend fast.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    Maybe your friend needs to get a life?

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