Is it normal im not racist, but

Not racist at all, you shouldn’t feel bad about ‘excluding’ anyone from your dating pool. Your vagina isn’t a validation station, you shouldn’t have to let anyone in there that you don’t want to and anyone who says otherwise needs to wind their neck in.

That is a very good point. At risk of sounding like an “edgy racist troll” I would not date a guy who isn’t white, especially not a Muslim. I just don’t find guys from other races attractive and Muslims have some views that directly go against commonly held western values.

I don't think anything you said, OP, is the least bit racist! I have zero desire to date outside of my own culture, and if someone thinks that's racist they can just fuck right off! I think that when it comes to dating, and attraction it's a very personal thing, and that no one has the right to judge me for actually preferring people I find attractive to whom I can actually relate. When it comes to dating I don't think that everyone deserves a chance, and it's very selfish the way some people fetishize others of different cultures to whom they are attracted.

I remember once I went out with this little, idiot who liked me just to be nice, and what a big mistake. The dude spent the whole night trying to put the moves on me, and wasn't interested in talking much. He didn't wanna smoke out, and he didn't listen to a damn thing I said. I finally got fed up, and asked him what he liked about me, and he said, "you're pretty, and nice". Ugh! Pretty, and nice is how I would describe a chair, or some other inanimate object! I don't think finding another person attractive is enough reason to want to go out with them, or worse yet enough reason to expect them to go out with you.

If someone doesn't want to hear what I've got to say, objectifies me, and comes from another culture that oppresses women I wouldn't want to date him if his life depended on it! I honestly think that if someone is only interested in sex, and what women look like that maybe he deserves to not have anyone! He sure as hell can't ever have me!

Being alone is not so bad, and honestly I rather prefer it these days. You don't owe it to anyone to give them a chance, and NEVER let anyone pressure you into dating someone you don't want to date. It's infinitely better to be alone than with the wrong person!

I agree the west needs to keep them the hell out. Let them stay in their countries and practice their own culture. Dont come to the west and try to tell us we cant make fun of muhammad or be gay. We dont have to warn you about bacon in our food either. Go back to muslim land and do that there.

It shouldn't be a race issue if you just get to know each person and thoroughly discuss the things that could become a problem before getting too close. It may be the majority, but there are always exceptions to the rule

Some of the most attractive, amazing people I've had and/or known are black or mixed (I'm white.).

I'd happily date people of virtually any background but so many men from so many cultures are very patriarchal and/or expect traditional You Woman Me Man And Head Of Household roles.

Would never knowingly go for a Desi specifically unless he had some British upbringing and/or was progressive (Lol!)... There's a reason that "bobs and vagene" is a meme!
Same with most (as far as I know) British men - they're everywhere! *I'm* a Brit! Why should I just stick to my own kind? That's boring.

Typically I go on a case by case level for any nationalities and colours and cultures but even with that, there are some definite patterns.

There's a whole bus route I avoid because I had a bad experience with a driver, who happened to be black. He thought I was his "girlfriend" and one day took a specific route so I "wouldn't have to walk as far". Creepy twat.

As for women and/or other genders... That's again a case by case basis but it's harder than you think finding queer women who aren't part of the Emotional Labour Mob. And non-binary people are the absolute worst for that.
I'm speaking as someone who's non-binary, a recovering Leftbooker and trying to get out of the Emotional Labour Mob.

Oddly, I've actually found that most incidents of racism I've noticed have been from black people (Although you do get a lot of whites who behave like this. Probably including me).

If I got with someone from a different culture, I'd do my best to learn about it. Afro hair? I'd ask them to teach me how to take care of it. Same with hijabs. Or whatever else.

But I don't think I could ever date someone religious again. My last partner (white) was bullied into evangelism. Seven years I wasted with him.

And an unfortunate reality is that many countries aren't safe for LGBT people born and bred in them, let alone LGBT foreigners.