Is it normal menopause husband's affairs etc turning into a witch with a b?

Your husband is a piece of shit! I wish you all the best. Maybe try to talk to some lawyers.

Sounds like a couple of really well planned murders are in your future. Best of both worlds; no hubby, but you get the money and no gf to raise the alarm that the hubby is missing.
I can just see it now, "Hello, police?"
"Yes mam, what can we do for you?"
"I haven't seen my husband in a week and I'm getting worried."
Policeman, "Why did you wait a week to call?"
You, "Well he has a girl friend, but he's never stayed away this long before!"
ETC. I see a TV movie in your future, too.

Wtf, for better or worse, why marry someone if you're not going to be their rock through the hard times. Your husband is an embarrassment holy hell, that's so disrespectful and disgusting. You're going through menopause for f*cks sake, what's his excuse for being an asshole?

You do need to say something to the woman, no woman has the right to barge into your marriage and parade around your husband. She's a homewrecking whore make her and your husband wish they never started the affair, make them suffer. Call your husband out on his shit. Just don't get your daughter involved, she doesn't need to be part of it. Just set a good example by showing her that you won't accept how your husbands been treating you and that you respect yourself. She just wants you to stand up for yourself.

It is bad enough to go thru menopause but to have such a jerk for a husband is just so wrong. I understand how you are stuck in this relationship probably due to financial matters. It is so hard to start again with nothing at this age. Also your emotions are all out of whack. You probably feel fat because your husband puts you down and especially throwing it in your face about the great other woman. Yes one day you are gonna blow and god is it gonna feel good. I am in the same situation in a lot of respects and after finding out my husband was cheating and advertising for sex online. Men and Women, total shock, I finally blew up after finding more crap on the computer, I threw the computer in the pool, called him up at his prestigious job and really blew up. It made me feel so much better, and now he knows he better not push me anymore. I will embarrass and humiliate him just as he did me. OHHH, he didn't like that but he straightened up but I will never trust him but now he knows he better not push me anymore, and Yes I would confront her and the more publically you do it the better. People need to know her for what she is. especially if she has a hubby and a job. Worse comes to worse let him file for divorce, the truth will come out and he will pay in lots of ways. Just start standing up for yourself, I was tired of being the wimp who had to take whatever someone else did to me. Best wishes and you deserve so much better.

You wear a size 4 and you think you're fucking fat? honey, I'm shallow as spit and Id probably be the first one to tell u ur fat if u were. A size 4 is not fat no matter how you carry your weight. You could gain 2 or 3 sizes and still not be fat. And FUCK your husband. What an asshole. Oh my god... I can't believe what Im reading. He is throwing that in your face all over the place just to hurt you and make you jealous. I can't imagine how disillusioned you must feel from your body changing on you and being afraid to take the poison they pass off as medicine in pharmacies. There has to be a safer alternative to some of those meds that can benefit you. I wish I knew more about that kind of thing to point you in the right direction. I know what they did in ancient chinese medicine and it was really successful, and definately wouldn't give you cancer....but trust me... You wouldn't wanna prepare it, or swallow it lol. It involves collecting urine from younger women, boiling it to concentrate it, and the stuff that's dry and left over can be put into glycerine caps. GROSS right? Was also used as the first oral contraceptives. They just subbed pregnant woman's pee for normal. And I guess both would have to be more than effective to be used in their medicine for over a thousand years. And preventing a pregnancy is way more black and white than blowing smoke on a wound and rubbing ginseng into it then telling you you're "over sexed"

Menopause is a really hormonal time and it's not fair for your husband to take advantage.

Divorce his sleazy ass and he should be required to pay alimony plus some for your duress.

What an asshole and I'm so sorry.

In the onset of menopause, get your physition involed. The estrogen supplement can help those hot flashed and help keep some bslsnce in your life. During my late wifes semi annual physical, she was warned of some normal hormone depletions, all could be corrected with meds. As long as she used them without fail. Forget just once, and the hot flashes and irrational thinking kicks in. Not so surprisingly the male body sees hormonal changes too, such as lack of testosorone. When both combine in a relationship, fireworks often occur. Remember that your youthfull, healthy bodies created both the romance and lust for sex and emotional well being. You both must use the help at hand to maintain and reach those levels again.