Is it normal my birthday makes me so depressed

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Since I was a child my parents and family members made it a yearly habit to forget my birthday. When I was old enough to throw my own events I invited all of who believed to be friends, and only one or two would show up. Then two years ago during a bad relationship my ex ripped out a handful of my hair, I spent my birthday in the hospital. This year all I wana do is get drunk but im pregnant goody. My birthday always makes me feel forgotten. Its the one day a year that reminds me that no one cares, maybe its me, maybe im loser not capable of a card or two

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Well.. CLEARLY nobody loves you. :( I'd feel sorry for you, but it sounds almost like you're intentionally surrounding yourself with people, whom you know you shouldn't have any expectations with.

    If you're pregnant, and feel the urge to get drunk, PLEASE don't. That fetus deserves more than a whiney mom, who selfishly wishes she could indulge in alcohol just cuz it's her birthday. GAH. Where do you live? I'll buy you some muh fuckin cake.

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    It's normal, I feel the same way. My birthday for many years hasn't been properly celebrated. It's not normal for people to not give a shit about the day someone was born.

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  • thinkingaboutit
    12 years ago

    You have no confidence in yourself. That's a problem for you and it will be a huge factor in determining your child's future. Get help girl! see a therapist if you can, & why don't you read some books on how to build your confidence?

    They won't hurt you, but help you understand yourself better.

    Have some hope.

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  • ericswifey
    12 years ago

    You people are obviously bullies. Today (my birthday) is the only day im depressed im a very happy person the rest of the year. I have other children they are perfectly happy and healthy. This is just the first time I've been pregnant..on my bday usually I drink to speed the day away. Can't do that obviously I don't even drink soda now. There's no need to be critical, I know people get bold behind their computers, but honestly go mess with someone else, I was just venting, and I really don't need the bs on a day that im already upset over.

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