Is it normal my boss thinks it's ok to put his hand up my skirt and groap me

You still should've reported him. As for proof, all I can suggest is recording him. But that would still be difficult to set it up in the right place at the right time.

Start looking for another job.

From the start you should have reported him, proof or not, and then informed some of the co-workers. Even if they didn't believe you, at least rumors will start. Along with that, ask a trusted female co-worker if it's okay that you help her out with work so you don't be alone and just stay by her side most of the day to limit your boss' opportunities.

It's hard to candy-coat this, but you need to find another job. Until you do, just talk to other co-workers (preferably females) about it, they can't feel help you, but again the word is spread around, so when you do find another job and quit, the rumors will continue until he gropes another girl and all hell breaks loose for him.

It shouldn't be normal. Thank you for sharing this. I'm so sorry you've had such a bad thing happen. I'll add more when I've read through properly, but I don't know if you use social media at all?

I only ask as there are several online groups where women can support each other in solidarity and fight back against what this chauvinistic pig is doing. Everyday Sexism is a site where you can share stories anonymously.

I believe you!

Set your cell phone up whenever possible and catch him the act recorded. You can also use apps to record conversations. Just push a button when he walks in the room. Have proof and you can fry him.

I wish it was all that easy, but I'm 50 jobs, are not easy to come by at my age. Most admin jobs are minimum wage (£7.50 per hour) or just over, I earn £10.60 per hour so if I change jobs, that's if I can even find another one, it is likely to cause me some financial hardship. I do have some female co-workers but they are all younger than me, with most of them being 35 or under. They are all pleasant enough to pass the time of day with, at lunch time etc but I am not really close friends with any of them because of the age gap. Also because of my position, administrator to the general manager, it is not possible to just go and work alongside other admin workers. I am in an office on my own, which you have to walk through to get to my bosses office. The MD also has his own PA but he is a man. We are all on the first floor, the other office staff are all in the general office downstairs on the ground floor. So I am the only woman in my area.

Sounds like a good time to ask for a bonus! Pay to play!

Report him and don't tolerate any more. I used to work, contractually, with a company and on the road with a petite, cute, hot woman. Very pretty and we became close friends. We'd go into the office for meetings about once per week, and, since we were involved in property inspections, she's sometimes dress comfy and wear jeans.

More than once, both the company owner guy, who was a younger, obnoxious individual, and his partner, a slender, too-cool, also kind of obnoxious guy who'd asked her out a million times, would smack her ass, either in the meeting room, or on the way in, issuing her a little grope. She tolerated it and laughed it off, but I knew it bothered her.

One day, though, we went in for the stupid meeting, she had on jeans, and, as we were waiting, she was leaning on a chair. Both of these guys came into the room, and, in a line, slapped her well-presented ass, hard, several times and nearly sending her to the table. Again, she laughed it off, but in my car afterwards, let loose on a sexual harassment suit against them both, since it happened so often. I supported her fully, but also thought..You let this happen all the time, and they'll say it's just joking around and you never said you didn't like it.

Just taz him in the nuts next time he does it

I would have cold clocked him already, but not suggesting that.

Didn't read the whole thing. Two things come to mind with the first groping. 1. He's probably been doing this for a long time and no one had yet reacted the way you do. I've been told this work behavior used to be the norm/still is with the older male generation. 2. He feared getting slammed with a case. Hence the profuse apologetic doubling down, which of course wasn't sincere.

I don't think you should be so quick to leave and find a new job. Nor do I think you should stay and suffer through this. You need to stand your ground. If he had tried that shit with me, he would know better than to do it again with me or try with someone else.

Went back up and skimed some more. He's too persistent. If reporting him does nothing, I would suggest doing a freezer spell. Whether you believe or not, or have not dabbled, it doesn't matter. It will still work. You use it to freeze unwanted people out of your life. I've done it with neighbors who were threatening and harassing my mother. I know others who have done it too with success.

http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html
This one is pretty pretty in depth. The one I used involved a jar of honey.

Why are you even still there?

Why are you allowing this to continue?

You started off with nothing and had to find a job. You can do it again.

Screw that boss. Expose him in front of everybody. DO SOMETHING. DO NOT ALLOW IT TO CONTINUE. MAKE IT STOP ONE WAY OR ANOTHER

I guess not but if my boss was a woman I'd enjoy it

Not sure blackmail is the answer, but will definitely look into the possibility of recording him. Thank you

Make friends with his wife,that should have him worried.

Paint red dots around your vagina so it looks like you have a nasty STD, then strip in front of him as if you are going to have sex with him.

buy one of those ink pens with a hidden camera and microphone. then download it to a computer, then make him pay you every week. on the other hand , you are 50, maybe you should be paying him.

No! Report him! If he's bold enough to keep doing it he could get more and more aggressive. I don't want to scare you, but situations like this have led to women getting raped before. Put up some hidden cameras either on yourself or hiding around rooms (inconspicuous places like behind a plant or up on a high shelf or in a corner he doesn't normally go) or leave your phone recording audio in your pocket. To try avoid being in any area alone.

Sew some fish hooks in your panties. Reel him in.