Is it normal my boyfriend has this problem..

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I have been with my boyfriend for a year now, and he is wonderful. However, he seems to have a specific health or hygiene issue involving his butt. I've noticed sometimes he has a less-than-pleasant odor coming from that area, or he will make the couch smell after he sits on it. It's not like this all the time, just about once or twice a week.

Additionally, he sometimes leaves skid marks on the sheets if he has been sitting on them naked. This has happened three times now. Last night I gave him a BJ while he sat on the bed, and when he got up, there was a small skid mark. I know he notices the marks, because he will gather up the sheets to put in the wash shortly after. I have not commented on it yet, as I don't want to embarrass him.

Is this a common problem in men, the skid marks thing? Or does he have some kind of anal leakage problem, or just bad hygiene? I promise this is not a joke. I wish it was :/

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  • paramore93
    5 years ago

    Ask him. You've been together long enough to talk about this stuff. If he's been too scared to go to a doctor, talking to you could help.

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  • JD777
    5 years ago

    It's probably just diet related if it's just skid marks. Meaning he might usually have softer stools and is messier down there. Or maybe he just hasn't mastered the art of wiping. Either way, you should mention it to him very nicely and without alot of words or hub bub - he'll be embarrassed. Tell him you use wipes (wet wipes like you'd use on a baby) and leave a package in yours and his bathroom. Good luck!

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    • JellyBeanBandit
      5 years ago

      You can't flush wet wipes though (despite what they claim on the packaging), they screw up the plumbing.

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      • JD777
        5 years ago

        Yeah, that’s right. I’m on septic system and they really mess those up. In the trash for wipes.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Yeah, I did leave some wet wipes in the bathroom for him but I don't think he got the hint. And I think he does have a soft stool problem, but I'm not sure why. Maybe too much fiber? I just am embarrassed to bring it up to him, but I suppose I'll have to eventually.

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      • JD777
        5 years ago

        Yeah, I would guess most guys wouldn't think to use his girlfriend's wet wipes. Sounds like you'll need to say something.

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  • blue_grounds
    5 years ago

    yeah nah thats pretty odd definitely talk to him about that. best not to shame him about it or whatnot

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  • trexagireve
    5 years ago

    Just tell him that if he doesn't keep his ass clean you will put him a buttplug!! It is unexceptable to make skid marks everywhere!!

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  • SwickDinging
    5 years ago

    Sounds like he doesn't wipe his ass properly.

    If you've been together for a year and things are good then why can't you talk to him about this?

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago

    This reminds me of someone I knew. She said she was giving a sweaty guy with digestive issues a blowjob and somehow some of the shit that was caked between his ass made it to his dick. Yuck!

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    • RoseIsabella
      5 years ago

      🤢

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      • Cuntsiclestick
        5 years ago

        Yeah, what she said made me cringe too.

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