Is it normal my brother is setting me up with a girl i don't want?

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My brother knows this cute girl named Rachel, and I know she's hot, but I would never date her. We have a huge age gap. I'm like a fetus to her, and I'm not that comfy dating people who are way older than me (5-6 years is the gap). So my brother sees this, goes "Yeah Rachel has a sister" and I'm jokingly like "Oh is she taken?" But my brother takes this literally. Cue hanging out with my brother, Rachel, and her sister. I am trying to send the hint that I'm not into her. I thought Rachel's sister would seem around my age, but nope! I didn't quite understand the difference in not only looks, but maturity. She looks like she's 10 years older than me, and acts more mature than me. Not only that, but I also felt like, no connection. I think the biggest factor is that I'm just not ready to date yet. I had a girlfriend once, but I realized I'm just not at that point in my life yet. Regardless, my brother keeps pulling the whole "Don't knock it till you try it" thing, and he doesn't or refuses to understand that I don't want to date her. Cute as she may be, not my move. Hell, I'm not even sure about my sexuality. I'm just too young, and he doesn't understand, or doesn't want to. What should I do? I think he might be trying to guilt trip me because he's like "You were such a dick" because I mentioned my crush was Japanese, half to give context to a story, and the other half to hint that I'm just not feeling it (they were white). What can I do to tell him? Am I being too whiny/picky? Thanks.

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  • CountessDouche
    3 years ago

    What should you do? Use your words, lady. In fact, maybe just read what you posted to your brother. Communicate. Rachel's mature sister would have done it already. Get it together.

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  • freelarking
    3 years ago

    Older women are a great time dude. I'd go for it!

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    Sounds like the type of thing my mother does trying to set me up with guys.

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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago

    You have every right to decline. You are yourself, you should be able to make the decision on who you want to set up with and not someone else doing it for you.

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  • bbrown95
    3 years ago

    If you don't want to date, don't. If your brother persists, tell him your dating life is none of his business and he should focus more on his own life. Don't rush into anything or do anything because someone else wants you to, you will only have regrets.

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  • nopurpose
    3 years ago

    "Hell, I'm not even sure about my sexuality"
    Faggot. Go suck dick, take a selfie and send it to him so he gives up on you

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  • trexagireve
    3 years ago

    The old chiken makes good soup, so put your young stick inside her

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    Your brother needs to mind his own business. Have you tried talking to him, and telling him to mind his business?

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  • TheDustyMagician
    3 years ago

    Your brother sounds like my grandmother, My grandmother show pictures of me to girls she know (without my consent) even though I dont want a girlfriend.

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