Is it normal my coworker left her partner for me?

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To make it short she left her partner for me even though I have ZERO feelings for her and I have a boyfriend. She seemed to have gotten the wrong idea. I think it was because shed complain to me about her partner's mental issues and I'd listen and give advice. I'd ask for advice on how to deal with my boyfriend and his knee injury that kept him from working. I never gave her any indication that I'd leave my boyfriend. I'm still happy with him. While I was taking my boyfriend to his physical therapy she was bombarding me with texts about how I "never gave her a chance." I treated her like I treat all my friends. I dont get what happened.

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Based on 12 votes (1 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    No, she sounds like a very unhealthy, and toxic sort of person to tell you the truth. I would try to distance myself as much as possible from this woman.

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    • [Old Memory]
      4 years ago

      Exactly what I was thinking! Stay the f k away from unstable people.

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago

        It's really scary to think of someone who has no problem setting out to be a homemaker!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Already have. She's blocked on everything. She also hasn't shown up for work today. I doubt she's coming back. Her damn ex girlfriend is also a nutjob. I got texts from her too accusing me of being a homewrecker. I really don't get why mental cases always befriend me. Maybe the next time I meet someone new and I find out they have some sort of mental issue I should just cut them off asap? I'm not trying to put all people in the same box here, but this is getting annoying af.

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago

        What did she say was here mental issue? Was she seeking treatment for her mental issue, or was she self medicating?

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    • d0esnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      Yes this! Even better give her a talking to! Use your feelings to get her just a little close to you and then tell her what's what!

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago

        ROTFLMAO!

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        • d0esnormalmatter
          4 years ago

          Haha even all caps. Knew you would like this Rose because I think there's a special place in hell for poeple like that. Someone needs to burn them really badly or else they'll never learn!

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          • RoseIsabella
            4 years ago

            Well, the good news is that whoever was seeing that crazy bitch is free from her clutches now. I've always thought there was something mind boggling about the fact that someone would go after a person who is already taken, and is showing zero interest.

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            • d0esnormalmatter
              4 years ago

              Yes excatly. Even if OP showed interest it would still be questionable but doing it when she clearly isn't is straight up fucked! At first I felt bad for the guy who's girl left him for OP but now I realize he was probably lucky he got out while he could.

              I have seen far too many desperate horny guys get into serious relationships with women they have no business dating and then they get fucked.

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  • ellnell
    4 years ago

    She sounds irrational and kind of delusional. You should try to tell her in a calm, nice manner that she's gotten the wrong idea. Don't fight with her, these people are already fragile and you don't wanna make anything worse. Then distance yourself little by little. If she wants to hang out, tell her you're busy etc.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      I told her and she didn't listen. I decided to just cut her off completely. She's blocked on everything. She didn't show up for work today and I doubt she's coming back. I really dont want her to anyway. This bitch is crazy and her ex girlfriend is too.

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago

        I'm glad that she's gone. Hopefully you won't have to deal with her crazy ass ever again.

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  • DIO
    4 years ago

    Check out Erotomania. This is probably what she has.
    And no, it's not normal.

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