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it wasnt related to our relationship, but is that a normal mindset? my family is more conservative, so maybe my view of her ending up as a sugar baby is less accepting than most. i was a bit upset.
Everyone has the right to use whatever they've got in order to get whatever they believe they need out of life.
Sometimes, the passage of time allows us to see that we've made some poor choices that have led us to an unhealthy place, but such is life.
She has the right to live her life as she sees fit and to make her own decisions about who she spends her time with and what she gets out of her relationships. You have the right to have your opinions about her life-choices, but since you're not in a relationship with her any more, they're completely irrelevant. At least you have enough insight and emotional maturity to recognise that your opinion is due to your upbringing - possibly tinged by hurt feelings - rather than based on some set of profound, eternal, universal standards of correct behaviour.
How is this “not related” to your relationship? The way you’re saying it it sounds like she openly preferred being a sugar baby to being married to you, no?
To answer your question, no it’s not normal to wish you were still a sugar baby rather than married to the man you “love”.