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My fiance who I have been with for 5 years has been calling singles hotlines.This has been going on, I think randomly, for a few months. Hes done it 3 times and always begs for forgiveness and promises its just so he can get off. What do y'all think?
How odd that some ppl think its because you're not doing a good enough job satisfying him!?
Seems to me like he has an addiction. Just like those who are addictedto porn.
I had an ex who I found out regularly went to prostitutes. Thought it was my problem, that I was shit in bed etc. I'd had 3 kids and spent 16 years with him when i found out. I fucked him off out of it. Since then he had a girlfriend who he cheated on with prostitutes, and now is married and still doing it. If there's something wrong with what you're doing he should man up and tell you, show you what he likes. But my advice is find someone who's worth your time. Kick him to the Kerb and find someone who's decent. Get out while you can, before any more precious time goes down the drain.
I think it's sad he has to call a singles hotline just to get off...obviously he's losing his attraction to you. Find someone els
What a loser. Careful what else he does. It could possibly be just the tip of the iceberg. A man like that probably won't apologize or stop anything until you catch him.
Maybe you could get a female in bed with you two! Ask him if that would get him off!!
Oh but I do give it up, Im more sexual than he is. And i'm not ugly if thats what your thinking
I'd be seriously concerned that trust in the relationship is already being tested by him when you're only engaged. Not a good omen.
And I'm sick with some of these replies. It's her fault now that he's "getting it" somewhere else ? I mean really ?
This is not your problem at all. You don't understand men - look at those men with world famous gorgeous women who have sex with prostitutes / the nannies! This is about him wanting something / someone different :o(
I agree with moomus. I'm sorry, but he's mentally moving out of your relationship and you're wasting your time. There's nothing you can do to reel him back in, he'll just sneak about and do it. Kick him out!! It's over :o(
I'm sorry but its fucked up if you think that's ok. It is definitely not.
Anyone that has to go outside the relationship to flirt, have phone sex, dirty texting etc...is seriously out of order. If there is something wrong with the relationship, that should be sorted first.