Is it normal my guy friends are this easily offended

I once shared an almost boomer-tier meme on my Facebook that showed two people in the car, the driver put on a certain band and the passenger went "I hate this band" so the driver in the third panel of the meme threw the passenger out of the car and continued to listen. I shared it ironically from a fanpage for a band I like. Then every single guy I know, not even kidding every single one, commented on the meme really offended like "wow would you really do that??" so I had to reassure every single one like "no its a joke, I would never throw you out of the car".
I once also had a guy friend tell me when we were texting that he's sad so I asked him why and he said he'd saw that I had a week earlier liked a meme of an old lady with a shirt that said "fuck everyone" or something like that and I had commented that that's already how I feel about people. So I had reassure him that I do not hate him. Do people really take personal offense to memes? I'm just a person with that sort of humor and my former best friend is an extremely sarcastic borderline mean person, I imagine if these friends of mine had ever met him they would've cried because he didnt share memes he just said things that would sound horribly mean if one doesn't understand a persons sarcasm. Sometimes I miss having a friend like that. My current friends are always extremely nice and so am I to them since it's our dynamic and I am generally a polite person but it gets kind of boring to never have an outlet for your less polite sides and apparently I cant even interact with memes that arent even offensive to most people without offending my current friends.