Is it normal my husband threw away my underwear

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I have suffered for the last few years from vaginal itching. I have seen the doctor and the gynaecologist on several occasions and have used various creams, tried cotton underwear, drinking more water, washing down there more frequently and less frequently but all to no avail. My husband wanted me to stop wearing underwear and just wear skirts or dresses to allow air flow, an idea he found on the internet. I have always resisted this, but since Corona lockdown I decided to try it for a couple of weeks, as I figured I’m hardly going out at all and no one is coming in. It has actually been much better, but then life has been very different. I am on furlough so have not had stress from work and life has generally slowed down. This may also have helped, but my husband doesn’t see all that, in his mind he has been telling me to stop wearing underwear for years, now I have he considers that the solution and basically told me I was not to wear knickers ever again. When I was busy in the kitchen he went through my underwear drawer and threw out all my knickers on bin collection day. He also got rid of all my tights, jeans and trousers. I am furious with him but he insists he has done it for my own good and this is the way things need to be from now on.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
    3 years ago

    Id be mad if he threw my stuff away regardless of why he did it. Its still your shit.

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  • MaxineFinnFoxen
    3 years ago

    I have nothing to add to your question, but I find it funny how there's so much conflict in these comments about what ladie's underwear are called x)

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  • Boojum
    3 years ago

    I'm far from perfect, but I'm not a controlling arsehole, so I'd never do something like that.

    If my wife tells me she's experiencing discomfort or having some sort of health issue, I do some online research, tell her what I've found and make suggestions, but what she does with that information is up to her. I want her to be happy and healthy, but it's her life and her body.

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  • someone0noone
    3 years ago

    man if he isn't regretful then I'd recommend you throw out all his underwear. tell him you read this new internet thing that some other type of underwear is better for him (whatever kind is different from what he usually wears.)

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  • CDmale4fem
    3 years ago

    Any "man" who feels he has the right or even the balls to control so many aspects of life, he needs a kick in the ball sack. He is hiding from his own insecurities, a small penis maybe ? Either way he should be replacing everything he threw out and then some. Hes a jack ass for doing that, and you should cut him off from sex until he replaces the clothes of yours. My $.02 and im a guy. No one should be treating someone they "love" like an unwanted redheaded stepchild.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Trust me he is well aware he screwed up. It’s been about a week now and he’s been in the spare room and doing a lot of grovelling.

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  • Tommythecaty
    3 years ago

    Sounds like a weirdo. But calling them knickers makes me think you are on par.

    weirdo kooks

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      What the fuck else would I call them? I call them knickers because that’s what they are. I’m not aware of anyone who calls ladies underwear anything else, unless its some stuck up cow calling them lingerie. Anyway the issue is my fucking husband threw them out, nothing to do with what they are called. I’m still bloody furious with him and don’t see why he he thinks he has any right to throw out my underwear. How would he like it if I threw out all his underpants.

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      • Boojum
        3 years ago

        You're not supposed to call them knickers because MAGA cap wearing covidiots are ignorant of British English usage, and they believe everyone in the world should speak American.

        If you should decide to submit to American linguistic imperialism, you should also change 'trousers' to 'pants' and 'tights' to 'pantyhose'.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          3 years ago

          Yes sorry, so wrapped up in ranting I forgot this site is full of Americans who don’t understand plain English. For all the Americans reading this post, ladies underwear are called knickers here in England, I think you lot over the pond call them panties though god knows why. It sounds more like what a poof would call his pants, and just to be clear pants are male underwear, not trousers. Another weird American idea I believe is to call mens trousers pants, so fuck knows what mens underwear is called over there.

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        • Clunk42
          3 years ago

          You don't need to insult the Trump supporters, dude. There are idiots from other political parties and other countries who all think that certain dialects are better than others.

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          • MaxineFinnFoxen
            3 years ago

            Not everyone in America supports trump, clunk42. Actually, I think less than most do. He won because there were more states that voted for him that had small populations.

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            • Clunk42
              3 years ago

              I never said they did. You mentioned "MAGA cap wearing covidiots." The MAGA cap part implies Trump supporters.

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    • bigbudchonga
      3 years ago

      Knickers is common vernacular in the UK, dude. I imagine Aussies and the like might use it too.

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  • Mammal-lover
    3 years ago

    This again? Why do you love calling them knickers so much? This post serires is as dull as grade school social studies

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    • Clunk42
      3 years ago

      That's what they're called in not-America.

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      • Mammal-lover
        3 years ago

        I'm aware. But it's this same poster going on an on about ot and its annoying. Besides knickers sounds like something a old fart would say

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    • Diaperdean
      3 years ago

      Mammal-lover
      you don't have the brains God gave a box of rocks.

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      • Mammal-lover
        3 years ago

        I like how your stalking my comments after I stalked some cjilds comments a bit aggressively. DOD I perhaps find your alt? Conspiracy theory!

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    • Cuntsiclestick
      3 years ago

      Thank you for saying it! This is the same post that was posted months ago. Lol

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        3 years ago

        Not by me it wasn’t. So maybe men behaving this way is more normal than I thought if others have posted similar stuff!

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        • Mammal-lover
          3 years ago

          Using an alt doesnt count as a new person. Fuck off with this shit

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