Is it normal my mum doesn't say anything to my younger sister?

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Basically dads home from HOSPITAL! Hes 78 and hasnt lived with us since we were kids. Sister is 22, I'm 26f and dad had to use her room but she didnt have to move out,she could sleep on the couch! Yet she fckd off to her bf place. Mum and I have to attend to dad 24/7, cooking, cleaning, working plus his meds.
Tonight mum got upset at me for not helping g her out with prep meals and dinners the last 2 days as I want time out for MY SELF. I worked yesterday and today to 3pm. I'm exhausted as I also have anxiety disorder. So she has a go at me for having some Me time while she says absolutely nothing to my younger sister? Wtf? Are u seriously kidding me!
On the phone she rang me up while I was at work with my sister as she still helps out in the family business and mum says she has to drive as apparently my so called "speeding" was making her uncomfortable lmao. She says I have to stop being mad at sister as it's terrible energy and she doesn't deserve it. I explained she sure does deserve it and why allow her to walk over you mum? She is self absorbed and this is why her ex best mate doesn't want to know her 😡😡

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  • MrToxic
    3 years ago

    This sounds like a debilitating environment. I understand your reasoning for waiting till you have a partner but there are alternative methods to getting the resources/connections to move out and into your own place. It sounds like almost anywhere is better than there.

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  • SwickDinging
    3 years ago

    Move out. It isn't your responsibility to be a fulltime carer to your Dad, but it will be expected of you if you are living there. If you move out then you can still help out, but do so with clearly defined boundaries that you set yourself.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      I cant move out until I find a partner

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