Is it normal not being normal or mentally well is trendy now
Nowadays it seems to be trendy to be mentally ill, have personality disorders or autism. It makes it difficult when you actually are in one or more of those categories but you appear normal on the surface because medical professionals start to only care about those who are also intellectually disabled, because at least on those people you can clearly tell they aren't normal. I doubt any of the trend-following, self diagnosed fakers would ever care to partake in activities for people with mental health problems. Or accept stuff like having to work without pay while the employment agency figures out what your abilities are. Or hanging out with people who have various disabilities for real. Or just dealing with the actual symptoms and not just the side effects which can sometimes be coming off as quirky and especially if you're a woman that can be cute or exciting at first glance, but in the long run no one can stand you and you're always lonely.
It's not trendy to not be part of the norm, it's really difficult and a daily struggle but especially young bored women without personalities pretend to be ill in some way because it's unique. Kind of like how some rich people pretend to be poor for the "aesthetic" and to be appear more likable and down to earth at first glance.