Is it normal she walked in on me and is now sad?

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So, my female roommate walked in on me jerking off two days ago. For me it was just embarrassing, and even a bit funny.

But instead of poking fun at me or having the “Ew gross!” Reaction that I assumed most females would have, she became super depressed and uncomfortable. My two other roommates laughed about it.

I feel incredibly guilty, I tried to make a joke of it like “Guess I really do need to get a girlfriend huh?” To try to lighten the situation, and she started to get tears in her eyes.

She’s an incredibly sweet, a little awkward but sweet, girl. And I’m afraid she might think I was trying to harass her or something. I feel really really bad about it.

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  • private3
    4 years ago

    Maybe she likes you? That's the only reason I can see for her to get upset about it - she likes you and is upset that you're beating off to porn instead of being with her.

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    • litelander8
      4 years ago

      That's exactly what I thought. Either way, OP should talk gently to her to clear the air.

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    • RoseIsabella
      4 years ago

      Perhaps.

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    • d0esnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      Great idea might you might be right. Either that or she is super sheltered and is in shock or some shit lol

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    • woahtherepardner
      4 years ago

      I don't think that's how girls would actually react?

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      • private3
        4 years ago

        You mean if they like you? Depends on the girl.

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  • leggs91200
    4 years ago

    No one pays attention to the real nor serious stuff.
    Someone asks a legitimate question and it goes mostly ignored.

    But let it be some dumb shit like someone asking if it's normal to want to sniff old men's asses and that gets dozens of replies.

    I imagine this thread probably IS honest. It is not stupid enough to be a troll post.

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    • Clunk42
      4 years ago

      Well, now it's got over 11 comments, most of which treating this post fairly.

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  • SunSnow
    4 years ago

    Did you apologize? If she walked in then it's an accident. Having mix gendar roommates awkward accident happens. Just don't walk in without knocking or taking permission

    U make sure to not to walk in while she's doing her business.

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    4 years ago

    Idk, maybe she feels guilty for walking in on you? Or it did really traumatise her for some reason? Or she wanted her first time seeing a guy's dick to be with the guy she loves?

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    4 years ago

    Huh? Man I’m not making this post up, I don’t know what you think is crazy enough about this to be a lie?

    I’m not some weird guy with a voyeur fetish or trying to “get caught”. Honestly, I think that might be why she is so upset. I think she might have intimacy issues, or is just uncomfortable with sexual things.

    I promise I’m not trying to fulfill some creepy fetish like a flasher or something.

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    • Clunk42
      4 years ago

      Who are you replying to?

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        4 years ago

        The person deleted their post

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Perhaps she was into you, and now just thinks that you're really gross?

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  • SwickDinging
    4 years ago

    She either has feelings for you or she's being ridiculous.

    I appreciate you have said she's nice and sweet, but she has no right at all to be upset about this. She barged into your room without knocking. That's very rude. If anything you are the person who should be upset about this, not her.

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  • libertybell
    4 years ago

    I think she's just super embarrassed. 😳

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  • Bazinga
    4 years ago

    Girls that like you behave entirely different than girls that don't give a fuck. You hurt her feelings. No jokes; be gentle.

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  • litelander8
    4 years ago

    What're the usernames?

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    • leggs91200
      4 years ago

      I don't think mods allow calling people out, but just think of the posts where a supposed "woman" will ask really personal stuff... PROBABLY connected to whoever it is.

      That aside, it seems the regulars come and go quite a bit.

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      • litelander8
        4 years ago

        I personally haven't posted anything fake. But what fun would the interweb be if trolls didn't exist?

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        • leggs91200
          4 years ago

          yeah, of course we know that IIN is serious business.

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  • Anoverthinker
    4 years ago

    Next time, lock the door or something

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    • d0esnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      Tell that to yo mama

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