Is it normal that a real man won't hit a woman back?

Vote YES if you agree that a real man would never hit a woman back who is hitting him.

Example a man argues with a woman about something, she gets mad and punches him in the eye. A real man would run away, ask her to stop, say he is sorry, or anything except hit her back.

Vote YES if you agree that only real men never defend themselves when being attacked by women.

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Based on 92 votes (32 yes)
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  • In before OP gets called sexist for treating a woman like he would a man in a situation.

    In before OP gets called a misogynist for thinking a woman should be hit by whoever she hits.

    In before the macho men say they're the most macho and how they kick all teh menz assets when they hit a woman that hits them, as if they're anything but bullies for not allowing someone to not let someone abus. Them.

    WOops, I'm late.

    Dude, don't bother asking this here. The general view of this matter in here is that men are to hang their head in shame and take it, and that an abusive woman's safety is something the abused man should care about.

    It's fricken wacky.

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    • bannedtrollaccount

      https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=whHBaNgsFbE

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      • bannedtrollaccount

        https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=whHBaNgsFbE

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          https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=whHBaNgsFbE

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    • dynamohumm

      Actually, NO you are definitely not speaking on behalf of me at all. I agree, and have stated this before, that if a woman hits a man, then she should expect to be hit back.

      I was a victim of domestic violence way back when, and so was scared of men for a while and what I perceived as their potential violence towards me, but I got over it.

      That said, I have NEVER hit a man in my life because I know if I do, a lot of them would hit me back and most probably I would deserve it.

      Derpy is a great guy who advised that he would NEVER hit a woman and I admire him for it but the OP and LGRAS had to bait him for it and to me that is not on.

      Lecture over. :)

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      • Its the uppercut of justice for you!

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        • dynamohumm

          You sir are an idiot.

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          • They're as bad as eachother tbh, for different reasons ofcoirse.

            But yeah, totally agree with what you said.

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    • derpyderp

      I guess when your size & strength is the same as an average woman it's a TINY bit more acceptable to hit a woman so I'll let you go this time Duzn't

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      • Thanks, man. I agree, Ill never quite make it to the toughness you've displayed online by ensuring everyone online you're like the toughest ever...over...and over...again. Not all of us are as masculine as you to the point we have to make sure everyone knows it.

        Thanks for understanding.

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        • derpyderp

          Certainly not the toughest.
          & I've had my ass kicked by men on more than one occasion.
          But, in my own apparently egotistical opinion I'm too strong to hit a woman for fear of seriously injuring her.

          You can't understand that? Cool apples I guess

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          • Surely you are capable of controlling how much force you use when hitting someone?

            If not then I can see where you're coming from and may be thinking others can't limit how much force they use.

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            • derpyderp

              Sure but what do I limit it to?
              75% of what I have? Half as hard as I'd hit a guy? Hard enough to REALLY hurt her once then tone it down just a tad next time until I find the perfect amount to beat a woman?

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  • VirgilManly

    A good rule of thumb is if you don't want to get hit, then don't ever hit anyone.
    That usually works.
    Why the fuck would anyone be surprised because someone hit you back?
    PS- I've never hit a woman, maybe because I just like classy women.

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    • Excellent reply.

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    • You'd think it's that simple but apparently the idea of "don't start none, won't be none" is lost on people who don't think women are children in this subject.

      I'm also pretty sure that the same people using the strength disparity excuse would call you sexist if you played devils advocate in saying that if we are to take strength disparities in to consideration between men and women then a woman should be seen as less qualified compared to men if physical capability is an aspect of the job.

      Now that's not my views but people using this tiring excuse that allows a woman to hurt other people then they're going to need reminded that using such an excuse implies so much more in many other aspects of life.

      Nevertheless what I said would be considered as sexist to some even though it was their mentality being used.

      Basically, atleast to some on here, the standard is that if something is to be gained via sexism for women, it's ok...if it harms women then it's not ok, even if the standard being used to harm women through sexism is their own.

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  • Anewbis

    Meanwhile, back in reality...

    I would defend myself against a female in the same way I would defend myself against a male if I needed to.

    Anyone who thinks differently has never had to defend themselves against a female bent on kicking their ass and able to do so if allowed.

    ...

    as you were

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  • derpyderp

    I agree entirely. A lot of men think they're hard & not to be fucked with because they beat their woman. In reality it's a fucking cowards act that little "men" use to make themselves feel big.
    I would never raise a hand to a female

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    • I would argue the same thing to a man that does the opposite aswell.

      People that hit others who are weaker for no reason are cowards but a person who will let another person walk all over them because they're weaker and are proud of letting someone weaker do so is also a coward in my opinion.

      Its not about being able to hurt another person, it's about setting the line that says that nobody is allowed to abuse and take advantage of you, male or female, and that idea of setting the line to others applies to men and women.

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      • derpyderp

        There are ways to set that line & prevent someone walking all over you without hitting them.
        If I was in a situation where I was getting assaulted - which I agree, isn't at all acceptable - I would get away from that situation, without having to hit a woman, then take steps to ensure it doesn't reoccur.

        Don't mistake me not hitting a woman with me being a doormat

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        • I agree. You can prevent anyone from hitting you without hitting them back. Same applies to men that hit you. Do you also treat men with this standard?

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          • derpyderp

            A man who is smaller & weaker than me (as most females are), certainly.

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            • But you said to OP that when you become a man you find other means to responding to violence without also being violent, and there are nearly always other means to avoid engaging in mutual violence, even with those that are the same strength or stronger.

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    • So if a woman attacked you, you would run and call for help?

      Great did you vote?

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      • derpyderp

        I don't know about running but I would cop a few &/or walk away before I hit her.
        I would also "restrain" her - if I was able to - until things calmed down.

        Yes I did

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        • Really wow!!

          So a woman picks up a bat and beats the shyt out of you and you allow yourself to die with a clear conscious.

          What a man!!!

          Fantastic!!!

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          • derpyderp

            If you ever grow up to be a man (assuming you're male) you too will learn how to handle situations without the need for violence.
            Sure, at times it's easier to just wallop someone but it's not always the answer

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            • Wait a minute don't start back peddling now.

              You had me thinking you were a Mans Man, don't even think about "walloping" someone. Take it like a man....Man UP!!!

              If you can get away great do so...But if you can't then take that ass whippin. Don't take the easy way out

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      • CountessDouche

        You proper tard, you. You do realize that situations like this aren't always black and white. There's a middle ground between "run and call for help" and KO curbstomp whilst the girl that pushed you cries bitch tears.

        Defending yourself doesn't always equal punching women in the face, not that your addled retard mind could work that out.

        As your other post implied, you're stronger than the women who constantly try to beat you for reasons unknown. Maybe you should hold their slappy pinwheel hands down next time and use your words.

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    • Kittenfever

      I'm so impressed there's a guy commenting that isn't slightly sexist.

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      • Defending yourself against a woman is sexism now.

        You don't understand sexism, you just use it as a buzzword to get what you want because you think the world owes you something. It doesn't.

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  • sarahJackson

    no one should hit anyone people who hit are pieces of poo poo who just get easily triggered for no reason

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  • Fall_outxc

    A real man or any man can hit a woman for self protection. But then the woman will call the police and she will say "He abused me!" Or "He tried
    to kill me!" Or any reason she can come up with. The police will believe her and take you away and jail time.

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    • Sad to say I've seen this happen. He went to jail and took 6 months to have a trial. In the mean time he lost his job, his home, his car and his kids. He got out of jail homeless, jobless and owing child support. And he actually never even hit her...I saw the whole thing.

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      • Fall_outxc

        I feel really bad to men you go through this types of situations.

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        • Yeah and all we get is Man Up and take it like a man!

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  • Fugazi,again

    If you have to hit her to protect yourself then fair enough

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  • GreyWulfen

    Violence is generally to be avoided, but if someone attacks be physically, I'm going to defend myself regardless of the gender of the aggressor. Everything else would be irrational. If a woman thinks she can deal like a man, she should be able to take it like a man.

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    • Great post.

      And of course I don't condone any man going out of his way and hitting women, abusing women or bullying women. However in today's society women seem to be more physically violent and truly believe they can beat up any man they are confronted with. Most of these women will hit first. Look at any YouTube Video almost every case the woman hits the man first and many times she hits him multiple times before he decides enough is enough.

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  • bucketfullofbuttholes

    It is really stupid to call a man a ''real man'' or a ''fake man'', makes no sense, you either got born with a sausage or you didn't. And I believe that hitting a woman should be perfectly acceptable if she is bullying you or constantly hitting you. I wouldn't hit her if she just slapped me but if she keeps throwing me punches I will knock her out without hesitation.

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  • Caps90

    Why would you punch the guy in the face! Thats BS

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  • llamalover

    no I think you are sexist

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    • Actually I think you are sexist and racist

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      • llamalover

        I'm not even kidding, I really want to know hw I am.

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        • Me too, I really want to know how I am a sexist.

          You first.

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          • llamalover

            a man hits a woman or a woman hits a man it should be the same thing, but no. also you are saying real man. who determines that. If a man or woman (see i said both) is hit they should have the right to defend themselves and not be real. No I am not saying hitting is right, it is very wrong. but still.

            your turn! how am I sexist and racist (even though I said nothing about race)
            :) thanks and let's not turn this into a big fight :)

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      • llamalover

        how? please tell me :)

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  • yourdeepestshame159

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PMguato7QUc
    The legendary uppercut of justice.

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    • devonsweeneysGF

      She won't be sucking any dicks for a while.

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    • WOW!!!

      That HURT!!!

      Bad man defending himself like that....he should have stopped the bus and run.

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  • college

    I would say that if a man is being abused by his significant other, he should do what he can to make sure he doesn't get hurt. He should not retaliate by trying to beat the crap out of her though. Do enough to get out the situation and perhaps call the police.

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    • So a man does not have the right to retaliate and defend himself physically if he is being attacked/abused [during the event] by a woman.

      He should run or call the police.

      Great, please vote YES!!

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  • SammyClassicSonicFan

    Cunt punt the filthy bitch if she hits you smack her back.

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