Iin, that as a woman, i'm attracted to other women only sometimes?

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I'm a 20 year old woman who has been attracted to men ever since puberty.
I can go months, fully convinced I'm straight. Attracted to men only, and completely uninterested in the idea of dating and sleeping with women a lot of the time.

Despite this, I feel strong attraction towards women every now and then. It's always unexpected, and I end up fantasizing about women even more than men during these times. I fantasize about relationships and sex with them, and I admire all of the things that makes them a woman.

The problem with this is the fact that these moments of attraction towards women just come and go. They could last a week, or they could last up to three months, but once these moments pass, I'm back to feeling convinced I'm straight again. It makes me worry that this attraction towards women is not genuine, even though the attraction is really strong.

All of this makes me afraid to even have a relationship with a woman because I'm afraid that my attraction towards her is another phase that will just come and go. I just don't want to set a woman up for heartbreak.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    You sound bi sexual with a preference for men.

    You worry that your attraction to women doesn’t last, but most people lose attraction to the object of their desires after a while.

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  • olderdude-xx
    3 years ago

    Totally normal. There is a good % of people who are between being pure heterosexual or pure homosexual. Its called "bisexual".

    Feel free to experiment; just be careful (Std's, etc). I suggest being selective on your partners until you understand who you are and what you really like.

    Enjoy whatever sexuality you really are...

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  • Meowypowers
    3 years ago

    I can fuck with chicks if they're super hot, but generally just men.

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  • ibrokemyds
    3 years ago

    It’s normal, you’re probably just more sexually attracted to women than romantically attracted and there’s nothing wrong with that. You sound bi, just with a strong preference for men.

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