Is it normal that i can’t fit a vibrator inside me

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As the title says, I have recently bought a vibrator and I can’t fit it inside me. It is slightly larger than the average penis and I have been unable to get anything more than the tip inside me.

At first I thought I needed to “warm up” by using smaller toys first so I bought a much smaller vibrator which is only slightly larger than the average finger. I was able to get this inside me but it hurt slightly and turning the vibration on made it hurt less but I did not feel anything close to pleasure.

I was able to get fairly wet so I tried the larger one again but still couldn’t fit much more than the tip and it did not feel pleasurable at all. I tried inserting it lying down from the angle a man would be, I also tried attempting to “sit down” onto it and gently thrusting it trying to get it further in each time but none of those worked.

I don’t know if I would be able to get it fully in if I pushed it much more forcefully but trying to push more hurts. I have tried on multiple separate days and had the same result. Am I doing something wrong or am I just not built to enjoy sex?

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  • KholatKhult
    10 months ago

    I’ve met 2 women who have completely written off penetrative sex altogether because of physical discomfort, so you’re not alone there

    There’s a condition that apparently effects 10-15% of women where they experience pain during sex, or doing anything that involves penetration (exams)

    Lube is good. You could try an over the counter muscle-relaxer, nothing serious. Talking to a doctor would be best.
    There’s something called an “Ohnut” which is like stackable silicone rings a guy puts on his junk that acts as a buffer/bumper for sex with a partner who doesn’t want too much depth

    I ain’t much help cause I’m a dude, but I’ve spoke with women who have the same issue

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    10 months ago

    Have you tried lube? For some people extra lubrication helps.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    10 months ago

    Don’t pressure yourself or set a time limit. The whole point of masterbation is to enjoy it.

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  • Doc69moose
    10 months ago

    Start small then get big 0ne or g0 to the farm get a goat first then a cow penis..

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  • newnormal
    10 months ago

    have you considered a real penis?

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