Is it normal that i can't not be scared

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Recently I have met a girl that is beautiful and kind, she's the only good thing in my life.... But I'm afraid I'm going to lose her. I'm afraid that no matter how hard I try I'll never really get to keep her that I'm never going to really have someone.... I'm scared of losing her and I'm scared that if I do I'll hurt myself.... Badly.... Please if there's anything you guys can recommend....

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Based on 11 votes (8 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Treat her with love, and respect. Whatever you do don't be jealous or possessive. Don't obsess over her, or elevate her to the place of a goddess in your head nor place her on a pedestal just because you are attracted to her, and want her in your life. Recognize and respect her unique and precious humanity.

    Yes, there is the chance that whatever you have with her will end, but nothing lasts forever. Try to enjoy your time with her in the present, don't let your fears possess you, and try not to suffocate her.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    Take a deep breath and relax. Don't try and be someone you're not. Just be you. She is still with you so obviously she likes the YOU! If things go south for some reason (hopefully not) it's not the end of the world although it may seem that way. Another will come along.

    BUT the main thing is she is still with you. She likes you the way you are. If she didn't she would be gone by now.

    RELAX!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    ???

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Live in the damn moment and stop being afraid to live ffs. Ppl like you piss me off.

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    • Alduin
      5 years ago

      Rude

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