Is it normal that i do not trust my girlfriend even though i tell her that i do

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my girlfriend is the volatile type and she cheated on her ex that was why they broke up and knowing that in addition to my immense trust issues I can't possibly trust her and and and she is still friends with her ex. I told her it's weird and that she should stop and set boundaries but she says she don't want to lose him and his friendship. what do you think I should do

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  • litelander8
    2 years ago

    Dump her.

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  • techpc
    2 years ago

    Don't stick your dick in crazy. Dump her.

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  • kikilizzo
    2 years ago

    I dont think you should date her in that case. It's a terrible idea if you have trust issues to date a cheater.
    I dated a guy once who was "friends" with his ex. I told him not to be and trusted him when he said he'll stop seeing her, plus she had a boyfriend... yet they still cheated together.
    I would never trust anyone who is "friends" with an ex, especially not someone who's prone to cheating. Even if they'd be just friends for now you can't trust that more isn't going to happen between them. Obviously there's still some feelings there if they still wanna be in each others lives, as the normal thing to do is let an ex go unless you have kids together.

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    • mcorleone
      2 years ago

      I really don't know what to do.I can't dump her because she has a disease which limits her life span and she always uses that to her advantage and she makes me feel shitty for thinking about breaking up with her. I don't want to hurt her or be the bad guy in the relationship.

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      • Curiouskitten444
        2 years ago

        So youre going to waste the last bit of her life being in a relationship with someone that isnt 100% in it? (One way to look at it)

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    Never believe the ol "we are just childhood friends" crap from women. They will say the guy is ugly and they dont like him but they will lie. Her ex is a threat.

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    Kick that bitch to the curb, boy! Once a cheater, always a cheater. People are creatures of habit. I've always had male friends, and I would never give up my friends for anyone, but I've never remained friends with an ex. The only way I could stay friends with an ex would be if we never had any real chemistry at all.

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  • mathewdavis133
    2 years ago

    Tell her the truth.

    You can't just keep making her think that you trust her when you don't otherwise you're hurting yourself by staying with her. IF he still wants to be friends with her ex, and stay by his side then it's probable she isn't trustworthy. Dump her.

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