Is it normal that i don't accept money from people?

Even when I really need it and they say I don't have to pay them back I just don't take the money. It's either me being too stubborn to accept help or I just get paranoid and assume that they're going to want something impossible in return in the future. I've also kinda dealt with my financial issues on my own since I'm used to being alone and my family is way broker then I am. IIN?

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    theres a one dollar tollbooth on the highway nearby and once in a while somebody gives extra money to pay for the people behind em

    ive had the attendant say the car ahead paid your toll

    i might look homeless and drive a shitbox but i aint poor and always give em my dollar anyway tell em to give the free pass to someone who deserves it

    last time i did this some jackasses in a new bmw came drivin up from behind me wavin and thankin me

    and im like for fucks sake i didnt even give the extra money just declined it and its a fuckin dollar at that

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  • kikilizzo

    Same here. I dated this guy few years ago who had a lot of money and he kept going on about if I become his girlfriend he'll get me anything I want and wanting to give me gifts I had never and would never ask for. I can see why that would appeal to a lot of people, but I found it sus (it could be used against me anytime as he could use it to guilttrip me and gain control). That's kind of how I consider it whenever anyone wants to give me expensive stuff or just money.
    I have a person in my close family too whom is never there for me and is pretty toxic towards me but a few times a year randomly insists on giving me cash even when I say I dont want it, same for birthdays and christmases. It has turned into a trap for me as i'd feel shitty cutting them off when they have done that for me, even though this person isn't nice to me all the rest of the time.

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  • Somenormie

    If it's their only money that they have then I will tell them to keep it.

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  • LloydAsher

    I make an effort to pay my debts as soon as possible. Just as I also call in other peoples debts when I know they can afford it. People dont ask for a loan from me anymore.

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