Is it normal that i don't love my partner

You suck

It is quite normal to fantasize about other partners when having sex (multiple studies verify that). That does not mean that you don't love your partner. It means that they are no longer the mental sexual titillation that you need (even as they satisfy you physically).

As for the other kinds of love that need to exist in a relationship to make it last: I suggest that you get and read the book: "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman

I actually suggest that people get 2 copies, and each partner reads it. Then act on what each of you have learned. It changes things dramatically for the positive.

Note that usually that people read at different speeds. Not a problem as long as each is progressing thought the book within a reasonable period.

Refusal to read the book is an indication of a failed relationship, and often beyond repair.

Poor guy.

Don't worry. Actually It means you're just an average woman.

First off, clean up that Moldy food, that’s gross! No matter how sexually attracted your partner makes you to it, you’re gonna get roaches!

So why don't you end the relationship?

Just get divorced. Clearly, its overdue. I truly despise anyone who acts in such a manner. Extremely immature & selfish. What's even more shocking is the fact that you still continue to have sex with him, although supposedly he repulses you? That's hard to believe because in every failed relationship that I'm aware of, including my own once failed marriage, the sex ended long before the actual divorce occurred.

Cut your losses and get a divorce?

You sound like someone who is yucky on the inside. Why did you even marry him?