Is it normal that i dont really like people in reality

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but on something like the interent i like to talk to you guys, i mean i don't hate people real life, but i just don't really see anything towards them, no connection no feelings just constantly thinking how i can leave from them quickly as possible whitout hurting thier feelings. online it's just words read it as your own pace, not always with someone in your air, physically and mentally. i don't want to see or feel people, i like just writing to them. is that so weid? because some people seem to say it is bad since people are supposed to be social.but its just too much and feels terrible.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    8 years ago

    That's more and more common in the internet age. Basically dealing with people IRL is a very complex task that requires a bunch of different skills like: Listening, interpreting body language, tone and facial expressions, making eye contact, being polite, finding the right words very quickly and most of all: Empathy.
    Usually we learn all this from daily interactions all our life, so we don't even notice what a huge performance it is.
    But if you spend most time alone and interact by text, then obvioussly you kind of neglect those skills.
    So don't feel bad for it, it's normal. You still should spend some more time with people to get better at it. The more you get used to it the more fun it will be.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Probably not "normal and healthy", but a lot if people can be jerks to put it very mildly. Perhaps you've had your fill of bad experiences with people, and that's why you can't stand them? I've certainly been burned more than my fair share of times in this life. I know for sure my cat isn't going to disappoint me.

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