Is it normal that i fear being alone

I fear that the people i love will die without me having a chance to say goodbye and expressing how i feel about them, i fear that they will just be gone in the blink of an eye, and i know i will not be able to survive without the people i love the most. Is it normal that i love them so much and i fear that they will be gone to soon, so now i try and spend as much time as i can with the because i have that fear.

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Based on 19 votes (17 yes)
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  • dirtybirdy

    All that fear leads to stress and stress kills, yo.

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  • hue

    I made it my goal to have everyone in my life know how much I loved and valued them every single day. I didn't just say it...I showed it. But I didn't cling to them. I realized that the best proof of my appreciation for them was to take what they taught me to become a good grown up person. My parents raised me to become independent of them.
    When my mom died I was so sad. I missed her horribly. But I had no regrets. I'd said everything I needed to her and done everything I wanted for her. I do sometimes feel bad that I made fun of some of the awful food she cooked. She did the best she could.

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  • BareClaire

    Everyone fears being alone.
    Its Normal but at the same time its not normal.
    Unfortunately its the progression of life and we all have to go sometime. You need to be kind to those you love but dont go over the top about it.
    You dont want to smother them while they are alive, just be there and let them know you care.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Fear is the mind killer.

    Be careful or you might just become a sack of potateos.

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  • xfg15

    if you die first you won't have to worry

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