Is it normal that i feel like i might be forever alone as a girl?

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I wish ‘the one’ or the right guy would hurry up and come already. Guys never seem interested in me and I have a fear of being forever alone. I tried putting myself out there sometimes but I just got ignored by the men at some events I attended. I sometimes cry, get seriously upset and frustrated that I might not find a guy interested in me to woo or charm me with romance. I am 22 and I have never dated in my life. I don't understand why absolutely no guys approach me ever, not even guys who want to use a girl for sex or a one night stand ever approach me. Yet, I would not say I exactly look exactly sexually promiscuous woman. I am not fat at a height of 5'4 and I weigh 115 pounds and I don't think I am ugly at least with makeup on. Even though I said that I don't think I am ugly, even if I was ugly, I see unattractive women with bfs all the time but I can't get a guy to approach me. This is very much taking a toll on my self esteem and mental health. I've never tried online dating because I feel like a looser if I would only be able to attract guys online but not so much in real life.

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  • Bobtailcatgirl
    6 years ago

    Love is a myth there is no such thing as the one. It's a fairy tale. Quit worrying about it

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      So should I just give up on getting a bf then........?

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      • Bobtailcatgirl
        6 years ago

        What kind of male are you looking for

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      • Bobtailcatgirl
        6 years ago

        Why do you want one anyway?

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  • gxdezlh
    6 years ago

    Find a guy you like and ask him out.

    Also: NOTHING IS WRONG WITH ONLINE DATING. Seriously.

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  • StinkyPickle
    6 years ago

    You sound like you are bad at flirting. You also sound like you project sexuality poorly. I'd like to coach you, but at this point you need to read books about flirting. Log into Amazon to see what you can find.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    You have never been out? Are you still a virgin?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      What do you mean by out? Where am I supposed to go to find someone?

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      • nikkiclaire
        6 years ago

        Like out on a date. There are guys every where. Do you have any friends. Get a group together for a party or something

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          Well guys never ask me out on dates and I don't have friends who like to party.

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          • nikkiclaire
            6 years ago

            Btw why are you seeking "the one". You should just be having fun and enjoying yourself.

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          • nikkiclaire
            6 years ago

            Ok. Well it will be tough I guess. Just ask someone out that you find interesting. What's the worst that could happen.

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  • Hellnaw
    6 years ago

    Get out more. Avoid online dating, mostly the crazy desperate men are on there

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Where should I go? I am confused on the places I need to be to find 'the one'?

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    • JonathanOo
      6 years ago

      Yeah it's true. You'll easily find someone with online dating. Going out is much harder but if people knew you were single and looking for the "one" they would be very willing to date you. Sometimes your self esteem/confidence being low is a turn off or makes you unnoticeable

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