Is it normal that i get panic attacks when i am near a guy?

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So whenever i have to stand or sit near a guy i get panic attacks. This usually happens when i am in train or bus, or just have to stand in line next to them. The panic attacks get worse if the guy is really good looking. But also get them f if the guy isn't good looking - but then they are not that severe. I have really have difficulty breathing, and i start feeling dizzy. I don't take medication and i don't plan to to that either.I was wondering if any other girls also have the same problem? and IIN?

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  • Jweezee
    8 years ago

    here's a little tip free of charge. Next time you're in this situation imagine the person taking a massive nose burning Taco Bell style shit. I think your problem is that you hold others in higher regard than yourself. Like the dude beside you is some flawless intimidating Adonis that has mastered existence and you're just some neurotic little twat. By reminding yourself that everyone is just a disgusting creature blindly stumbling through life you realize that no one is above you. Everyone has their fears, dreams, wants, and needs.....and are animals that expel feces from their sphincter. Fuck a sense of inferiority. That bitch on the bus is just as nasty as anybody else. I recommend the critically acclaimed book "everybody poops"

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    • Myghoul2099
      8 years ago

      isn't that the famous line a rapist says before he whips his dick out? "don't act like yo shit don't stink bitch". don't go around teaching people to think like that you dumbfuck.

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  • dreamyboy2007
    8 years ago

    have you been sexually abused? are you scared of it happening? has it happened in your family? are you profoundly straight? there has to be more than one factor playing into why you're feeling and acting this way. I'm sorry to hear you have this problem, it's not easy to deal with, but if you can somehow tackle the source then you can overcome it.

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  • Lonely2
    8 years ago

    its an anxiety disorder...its not your fault...first of all I dont know if you suffered any trauma...but when people find someone attractive their heart rate and breathing slightly increases...for most people this is no big deal..but for you it triggers anxiety amd then panic....

    First what happens when your breathing increases is that it gets more shallow ...this decreases oxygen to the brain and sets off the panic response...all you have to do is remember to take nice slow deep breathes..we cant control our anxiety but we can control our breathing...nice slow deep breathes can prevent anxiety from tutning into panic

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  • IMissMary
    8 years ago

    I'm a guy and I get erections when I stand next to women especially if they are good looking. Sometimes it gets so bad that I climax

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  • seekelp
    8 years ago

    If a certain type of person makes you nervous to talk to, the best way to deal with that phobia is to talk to them.

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  • gazorp
    8 years ago

    I'm a guy and have the same problem in reverse. I've tried a bunch of drugs but haven't found a permanent soultion.

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    • icant_
      8 years ago

      Have you tried dagga?

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