Is it normal that i'm 21 and have never kissed, dated, or had sex with anyone?

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so i'm from the u.s. and i've started wondering if this is actually weird, since it seems like most people here do these things way before 21, and i haven't yet and honestly probably won't in the foreseeable future. also i am by no means unattractive physically or otherwise, tons of people throughout my life have complimented me, mostly on my physical beauty but also on my intelligence and personality. but i am extremely shy and introverted, and i never go out of my way looking for a relationship because it's not something i necessarily want or need in order to be happy.

okay, i wrote way too much lol. thank you to everyone who votes!

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  • DADNSCAL
    2 years ago

    It my be normal for you, but if it’s something you desire you should try and get out of your shell and get closer to people. It would be good for you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      yeah some people tell me this, right now i'm not really interested but maybe in the future

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  • Somenormie
    2 years ago

    That is very normal.

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  • Tommythecaty
    2 years ago

    It’s certainly odd by that age in my generation, but yours has...well...some very special people.

    I’d say you’re missing out on a lot of experiences by not doing so.

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    Just be yourself, no compare yourself to others.

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  • mouldiwarp
    2 years ago

    I still haven’t done any of those things. You’re normal.

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  • jrbsportz
    2 years ago

    Well girl dont sweat the little stuff.all people are different and some move fast others slow.you are beautiful,sexy young lady that needs to find a partner who will lo e you for you and enjoy the the things in life that makes us fill good and sex is one of them go and explore you won't regret it!!! From hard rock dude

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  • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet
    2 years ago

    I didn't date/kiss someone until I was 16 & I didn't (attempt to) have sex until I was 20, I didn't like either.

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  • MandMs52
    2 years ago

    I was 18 when I had my first real French kiss, I was 30 when I had sex for the first time (and with another virgin) and let me tell you, it wasn't good because he didn't know how to make love. Find someone more experienced. I want to have sex again but with a guy who knows how to do it! Lol

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