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I just feel safer when a guy is holding me. I don't want to have sex with them, I just want to be held and protected.
What if you're actually bisexual? But you're sexually into women and romantically into men.
perfectly normal, your sexually attracted to girls, but guys are built for one thing really and that's strength and power, and that makes you feel protected, a woman would mentally give you that feeling but never physically like a guy does, if your gf don't mind then all good, if she would mind then find a gay guy to cuddle :D
It's perfectly fine. One's sexuality doesn't determine who can make you feel safe. Example: You could be a straight guy (which you obviously aren't) but feel safer being beside a girl. You could be a homosexual guy and feel safer hugging a girl than being around any guys. You could be a straight girl but feel safer with girls. You could be a homosexual girl but feel safer being beside a guy (your case). It doesn't matter. And it could also possibly be like Whatever25 said. Or you could be completely bisexual or pansexual or whatever kind of sexual. Point being... IT'S NORMAL.
Have a non sexual relationship with a man then sexual one and see which one's better then do the same with a woman