Is it normal that i'm afraid to be honest because i think people will get mad?

This weekend, I had to watch my parents' apartment and their dog while they were away. The dog is always supposed to go out at 7 AM, and I had been doing that every day. This morning though, my alarm clock didn't go off and I didn't wake up until 10:30. I found a puddle of pee on the carpet, unsurprisingly. I got the stain out fine, but there's still the smell of cleaner in the apartment that won't go away.

When my mother called this morning, I told her what had happened. I was OK with telling her because she doesn't overreact, but my dad tends to get mad at the smallest thing and blow it out of proportion. I'm worried what he's going to say about it.

I know it wasn't my fault my alarm didn't go off, and I know that I fixed the problem, but even besides this issue I'm always afraid that if I tell someone the truth about a mistake I've made, they'll get incredibly angry and blow up at me. In the past, it's prevented me from talking about problems at work and school.

Do other people get scared of telling the truth for this reason?

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  • Anime7

    I think that due to your experience with your father's behavior at blowing things out of proportion, this is a rational fear. However, I do not think that this is a bad quality to have because I'm sure people appreciate the honesty. My best advice would be to stand up to your father and explain to him that you stay and fix the mistakes you've made as opposed to blaming the problem on others and not standing by your error. You sound like a caring person, but a little backbone never hurt anybody.

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  • Fidgety

    I always lied about stuff just so I wouldn't get in trouble. Lots of people are like this.

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  • Wrest216

    Same with my dad. Course, his drinking doesnt help calm him down.

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  • joybird

    Just tell the truth and if he blows up tell him no-one died coz of it!!

    That man needs to take a chill pill.

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  • porsublue

    My dads the same way. Just be ready if he does and don't think about what he's saying.

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