Is it normal that i'm married but i love cocksucking

I am a 55 year old man, married for 30 years. About 7 years ago my wife lost interest in sex. I begged and waited on her she very rarely agreed and then when she did without any passion.
So I started hooking up with men thru craigslist. I always try to find other married men and always play safe. I feel some guilt but I need a sex life and my wife doesn't.
I've found I really like cocksucking. I'm not into kissing or hugging type stuff just cocksucking.
My biggest problem is finding suitable partners so I don't hook up often. I am always horny then and end up looking at porn and jacking off. Sometimes I eat my cum when I really miss sucking and eating another mans load.
I don't believe I'm gay since I do love my wife and don't have feelings for other men I just want to suck their dicks. I don't worry about if I am gay or not...I believe I'm bi.
I do know that I really like cocksucking and don't intend to stop. I have mentioned it to my wife and her attitude is she doesn't want to know about it. I doubt if I could ever be really open with her and just say 'I'm going over to suck off Bob, be back later/" But I'd love for it to be that easy.
Are there other married guys that have worked out a better way to having the sex life they want?

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Comments ( 43 )
  • lvcumluver

    My wife was the one who turned me on to sucking a cock, have never thought about until she started with certain things in the bedroom which led to the question that she wanted to see me with another guy, a couple of weeks later I agreed to it and haven't looked back since. My wife is very cool about it and has let me have regular lovers so I never go long without cock. I however allow her the pleasure of other men as well as it turns me on seeing her with other men or knowing she has been with another man.

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    • hillbilly333

      That would be such a turn on to suck my wife's guy friends cock. But I'd tell her that "I want to do it better than those women in Porno Movies Women do in the movies only with me I wanna swallow cum not take cum facials like those women in the Porn movies. I wanna swallow not spit cum .

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      • ncbymail

        Me too. One of the biggest reasons for sucking dick is to get a big load of cum to eat!

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    • Bumholelover

      You can suck me anytime, I will fuck ur wife and cum in her, we can have regular 3 sums

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    • Cinamarymale90

      so weird... ur wife and ur age???

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  • Carl

    There's nothing wrong AT ALL with anything you've said or done. I am also a latecomer to being Bi, and just like you, once I had that first dick in my mouth, I knew I'd never want to stop. I'm sure you've come to the conclusion by now, that even if your wife gave you all the sex you wanted, you'd still want to suck dicks. It's not a gay thing any longer for a man to want to have sex with another man, as a lot of us have realized that it's just another way in which to enjoy a good, healthy sex life.

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    • ncbymail

      Yes, I come to that conclusion. I am a cocksucker now. Given the choice between fucking my wife and sucking a big cock I'd go for the load. Sucking dicks is the most fun I've had in years. I'm glad she stopped fucking otherwise I'd never know how good cocksucking was.

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      • lvck69

        Yes same as my wife so I really started to look for guys I could suck off. Just love a hard cock now in my mouth

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        • ews

          The same story for me I now go to a bar where men stand around in their underpants or go naked and fuck or suck one another in public. I am not into anal sex but love sucking cock and swallowing cum.

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      • Bumholelover

        You can suck my cock after I fuck her

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      • Bumholelover

        You can suck my cock

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  • lovemen

    i found out how much i enjoyed sucking a cock when my wife and i invited a good friend of mine into our bedroom. he had been wanting to go to bed with her for sometime and my wife and i could tell that he was getting very horny with her. then one day we all went out together and at the end of the night invited him come over for a night cap and spend the night. i couldn't keep my hands off his cock nor my lips. i loved it.

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    • Bumholelover

      Kik me at Deadly_ninja123

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    • Carl

      So what does you wife think about it?

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  • Robertb4u

    Your story is close to mine. I haven't had sex with my wife in years, she is just not interested. I have often thought what it would be like to suck off a guy, I dont want the complication of another woman in my life just to give another man a great oral orgasm would really be great. I have not gone out looking for a man yet, just porn and fantasy and solo sex.

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    • Bumholelover

      You can suck me

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    • openbottom58

      I have sucked two cocks years ago and for years have wanted to do it again on a regular basis, but don't really know how to go about hooking up with another man. I travel some and stay at motels with indoor pools hoping that some night the 'right' guy will give me that look or make the first pass and then it would be on! Up to my room and a long night of fun. I love to look at porn of men on men and jack off to it and always have big hard great cums dreaming that its me doing and getting it. I keep hoping

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      • Bumholelover

        We will fuck

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  • sfj2741

    I discovered how much I enjoyed it at a friend's house in high school. I was sleeping over and during a conversation about sex he told me his friend next door was sucking him off on a regular basis. I'd been curious, figured what the hell and asked if I could suck him off, too. He could't get that cock out fast enough. As soon as he was in my mouth I know I was going to enjoy it; and I did. Then he (a total jock and very popular with girls) shocked the hell out of me by reciprocating!

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    • dudeofsteel31

      Dude..... Wtf....

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  • biguy69

    I am a 62 year old cocksucker. I have tried to get my wife to watch me suck a real cock not just dildo cocks, but she won't have any part of it. She says i am hers only. But i meet men and suck their cocks and swallow their hot loads! MMMMMMMMMMMMM

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    • Carl

      I wish we were both playing and sucking together.

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      • Curious12

        play and suck and play with a cock too.

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    • gerrycum

      My wife says the exact same. Also won't watch me suck a cock, or even have a 3sum with me. But she knows I am bi and won't stop sucking cock. Hooking up 2morrow 2016-06-16) with my bud. He sucks me and I suck him. But I'm adding anul sex to the equation now. I'm gonna get butt fucked bear back!
      Cannot w8 4 2morrow.
      Mmmm
      Gerrycum
      A real life cock sucking taking it up the ass, like a whore, married man!

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      • ncbymail

        How was that cock up your hole? Did it feel good letting another man fuck you? I've done it a few times and need to again soon. NOthing like a big hard dick either in the mouth or the ass.
        You've made me want to get my suck buddy to fuck me.

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    • Bumholelover

      If you tell me were you live I can come round, and you can suck me while ur wife watcha

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  • lovetosucktoo

    I think it was great to read this. I loved watching my wife fuck other men and I liked the humiliation she gave me sometime. It was all part of the game. We had great sex but wanted more and I love it when she invited me to suck the mans cock and eat his cum (YUM YUM) I love to suck and get fucked hard. Go for it and have a good time

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  • Seustewart

    My name is Bob, you can come suck me off.

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  • softboy

    What the fuck does a 55 year old type like? Retard. What a stupid comment.

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  • ncbymail

    Been yeas since I first replied to this! Still love cock and cum and still not getting enough cum.
    I don't fuck the wife now...pussy free! Only want dick either in my ass or my mouth. I Wilkesboro NC...bring me some dick!

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  • ohnolen

    sucking cock is alot better then you think... Try it and see

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  • wj2500

    couldn't agree more, nothing like a fat cock in your mouth as it explodes down your throat!! luv the feeling, never can get enough,,

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  • ilioaikane

    If you enjoy sex and making people cum is a turn on for you, why not... it's only sex. I love sucking cum from a cock or my wifes pussy or the occasional other pussy from friends who invite me... usually after they've had experience with my wife....

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    • ncbymail

      Me too, I don't care where the cum is or what dick put it there. I just know I wanna eat it. I wish I could get my wife to fuck others hopefully I'd get more cum then. They could fuck us both, I enjoy getting my ass fucked too.

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  • sissybrucie

    Mine started when my wife was finally honest with me and said my tiny 3and a half inch cock just wasnt doing it for her ,and talked me into a threesome with an old boyfriend of hers ,I was against it at first ,but knew I did have a tiny cock and knew my wife had always tried to mplease me ,So Dean came over we had a few drinks and found ourselfes naked and I was surprised I got excited at both seeing Deans 8 inch cock and then watching my wife put her hand around it and get him hard.I found my little cock hard and now relize I was getting off from the humiliation of my tiny cock compared to his ,My wife added to it when she said ,My God Dean yours is three times as big and they both laughted and I got even more excited as my wife said Brucie I really think a guy with a tiny cock like yours should have to watch a guy with a real mans cock do his wife ,and I didnt say know and watched as my wife moaned and got off and said Wow Dean my first real climax since we dated .Then she said Brucie honey you really should taste Deans cock ,its delious and without hesitation I sucked Deans cock untill he came off and admit I loved both the taste of his cum and the humiliation of knowing my wife was getting off seeing me suck Deans cock ,I have been sucking my wifes new mens cocks ever since and she has added panties and a wig to the deal for me to wear ,Tiny Dick Brucie

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    • Seustewart

      That's hot. I'd like to make ur little dick explode.

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      • dudeofsteel31

        Wtf.... Yall are some weird ass guys man. Talking about cocksucking like it's a sport or some shit.

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  • ballparkdogg

    dude you are not gay..maybe bi, but don't worry about labels. If you like sucking cock, then have some fun with it. I am married and there is an older guy that I meet that lives down the street. It is really convenient. We take turns at each other's house when the other spouse is out.

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  • sunny_wantsome

    Disgusting

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  • softboy

    My wife lost interest after menopause. I don't suck cocks thou. I pay to play it's less stressful and has less guilt. We don't have dinner or drinks and all that hit & miss crap. Just great sex with a great escort of my choice black, White,Chinese, Japanese, Polish Sluts, Sweedish whores any way any time, being married & sucking cocks mean you got it wrong mate, your gay

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  • chaosdragoon1

    How did you go from having a wife to sucking off guys? Were you bi before you got married? Either it just sounds like you really enjoy giving pleasure--pffff! Sorry I have been laughing this whole time. Interesting story though. But just remember cheating is bad.

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  • aussiewolf

    so how is it safe if you are eating another mans load? you are a sad sorry excuse for a man.

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    • peterr

      And what are you, an Aussie mouthpiece. Met goofs like you in Vietnam. Pussies the lot of you!

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