Is it normal that i'm procrastinating my abortion

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I have a bunch of tight deadlines on projects and other things like filing taxes which I haven't started yet, and looking for a new place to rent. I found out I was pregnant a couple weeks ago and haven't gotten around to calling a clinic yet. It just seems like it's gonna be a big hassle. Is it okay if I wait until the end of April? That will make the baby about 3.5 months old.

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IrishPotato

5 years ago | pl

How the fuck did someone knock you up?

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- donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
  
  5 years ago | pl
  
  how the fuck did she take the time outta her busy schedule to git knocked up?
  
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  - IrishPotato
    
    5 years ago
    
    Truly a mystery of the ages.
    
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bigbudchonga

5 years ago

I'm no doctor, but I imagine the later you leave it the more damage you'll do to your body.

You've got the possibility of stretch marks, and it's going to be sucking nutrients out of you. I really would get it taken care of. Or maybe you should ask yourself if there's another reason you don't want to get rid of it. The subconscious is quite strong.

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- RoseIsabella
  
  5 years ago
  
  Right on, my man! A lot of people don't like to hear anyone say this, but it's very possible for a woman to experience a type of PTSD after having an abortion. It's not like a person can consciously choose to decide whether, or not something like this will traumatize them.
  
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  - WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    
    5 years ago
    
    Why does an innocent baby not deserve to live but a scumbag that will kill her children does? I wish they would abort the mom.
    
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    - RoseIsabella
      
      5 years ago
      
      Many post-abortive women actually develop PTSD as a result of the abortion. It can take up to 7-10 years after the abortion with some for grieving process, and realization of the trauma to develop. Many of the different Roman Catholic dioceses across the United States have healing retreats called Rachel's Vineyard retreats. Google it.
      
      Hating the women who have abortions is not going to solve anything. Our culture is oversexed, and treats women like objects. The Pro-Life concept of the Culture of Death, and the Feminist Rape Culture have a lot in common, and are in fact practically the same thing. Many of these problems are a result of taking the possibility of life, out of the conjugal act. People hate to hear me say this, but sex is not a risk free recreational activity. If you believe in the morality of the Bible then surely you can understand the concept that sex was designed by God to be an expression of love between two married people.
      
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      - WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
        
        5 years ago
        
        Good, I'm glad they got PTSD. They killed their own baby. I thought you were a christian. Why are you siding with scumbags?
        
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        RoseIsabella
        
        5 years ago
        
        I am a Christian, and I'm not siding with anyone. Jesus Christ commanded his followers to love, and pray for their enemies!
        
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- LloydAsher
  
  5 years ago
  
  That's the 15 week cut off for me so no best to ride it out and give it up for adoption.
  
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WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

5 years ago

Please dont do it. How can I convince you to keep it?

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- CountessDouche
  
  5 years ago
  
  Calm yourself. It's almost impossible to get a legal abortion that late unless there's a medical reason. Most likely a troll.
  
  Or you'll have to stab at it with a coat hanger, OP.
  
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  - WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    
    5 years ago
    
    3.5 isnt even that late actually. I think thats legal in every state (could be wrong but its 24 weeks in most?) In NY its legal to have them up until birth. Even if half the fetus is hanging out of the vagina (swear to god)
    
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    - CountessDouche
      
      5 years ago
      
      No, lol, i just looked up the new NY abortion law, as i'm not living in america & it looks like it only allows abortions up to 24 weeks IF the mothers life is in danger. You'll have to correct me if i'm wrong.
      
      As far as i know, abortion is only legal during the first trimester, though it is a statutory issue.
      
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      - WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
        
        5 years ago
        
        The new law in NY decriminalized all abortions. It still says in the law that "it should only be done if necessary". But even if the doctor deems it unnecessary he still can not be charged criminally even if its a partial birth abortion. And also nurses I think even techs can do the abortions now too. It doesnt have to be a doctor.
        
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        leggs91200
        
        5 years ago
        
        If I may interject -
        Pro lifers claim that life begins as soon as the sperm hits the egg. It is actually a lot later though. Life doesn't truly begin until the kids are grown and moved out of the house.
        
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        CountessDouche
        
        5 years ago
        
        That sounds mighty fox-newsy to me, but i haven't read up on it much.
        
        Do you have any informative articles or anything?
        
        Honestly just interested.
        
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        embodiedentity
        
        5 years ago
        
        Good!
        
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  - leggs91200
    
    5 years ago
    
    OOOOHHH shit!
    Seemed reassuring then took a 180.
    
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    - CountessDouche
      
      5 years ago
      
      Hahaha ikr...i had to sit and count it out. Your response was really helpful though!
      
      I just tried to take a stab at being helpful ;)
      
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    - RoseIsabella
      
      5 years ago
      
      Yeah, the Countess of Douche has definitely got a style.
      
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WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

5 years ago

Couldn't have said it better myself. It looks good at first glance but its decriminalized.

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RoseIsabella

5 years ago

Hey kids, this is why you shouldn't ever have sex without a condom unless you are married! Also, you shouldn't have sex outside of a committed, monogamous, longterm relationship. Sex is not a no risk recreational activity.

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- SwickDinging
  
  5 years ago
  
  Thankfully my kids are still too young for all of this, but this is what I will be teaching them. Not necessarily that they need to be married, but just that as you say it isn't no risk. Every time you have sex you might make a baby, even if you've taken steps to lower the risk. It could still happen. So stop and ask yourself - is this person someone I want to make a baby with? Do we share the same views on abortion? Would they be supportive? Would they be a good parent? If you don't know all of these things about them then it's irresponsible to have sex with them, end of story.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    5 years ago
    
    Precisely!
    
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karmasAbich

5 years ago

This is obviously not true and you’re just fishing for hot button topic opinions.

Not gonna vote!

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Ummitsstillme

5 years ago

Just tell the multiple men you've fucked recently you're pregnant, they're the father, and it could only possibly be them and you need money for an abortion. I'm sure you're ho enough that if you hit them all up you could come up with enough for this abortion, your next 3, and a down payment on a Lexus.

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- leggs91200
  
  5 years ago
  
  That is just wrong. What a horrible thing to suggest. I mean if megadriver were on this thread, what would he say? Well for all my betting money I would bet he would say "buy a Mercedes".
  
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chuy

5 years ago

If you aren't trolling, I say keep the baby once it's born give it up for adoption. If you don't want it there's no reson to kill it.

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SwickDinging

5 years ago

Kill your baby whenever you want, the law says it's fine, why are you asking strangers on the internet?

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RoseIsabella

5 years ago

I think you're trying to start shit on this topic. I could be wrong of course, but...

If you feel like you want to procrastinate this decision perhaps it would be better for you, and the baby if you gave birth, and put the child up for adoption?

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- litelander8
  
  5 years ago
  
  This is a troll.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    5 years ago
    
    Yeah, it has that troll smell about it.
    
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    - McBean
      
      5 years ago
      
      Yeah, and it's triggering nightmares to me about getting stalked at restaurants by two sisters. In the dream, I try to be polite to them, but when I look up the whole restaurant is filled with clones of the two sisters. I wake up screaming. I'm wondering if I am paying the price for not being aborted when I was a fetus. Oh, the horror of it all.
      
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        5 years ago
        
        https://media.tenor.com/images/8f6c0c9b07997e4b0673f853757a9c1a/tenor.gif
        
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        McBean
        
        5 years ago
        
        Yup. That's almost them. They were both 4'10" but they didn't have big hair, and they didn't smoke. The "cute" one had just a bit of color on a small lock of hair.
        
        PS. You would be a good police sketch artist. I hear it's all computerized these days.
        
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leggs91200

5 years ago

The earlier you get this done, the less recovery time there will be. Having an abortion is no where near the hassle of raising kids. You have to decide for yourself what is the right choice.

But getting down to facts -

Planned Parenthood would be the best place to start your research.

You need to find out what the deadline is because if you wait too long, they cannot legally abort. On planned parenthood's website, they state this -

Generally, in the US, abortion is an option from very early pregnancy (somewhere between 4-6 weeks, depending on where you go) until about 24 weeks. Abortions are available later than 24 weeks only in rare cases for medical reasons. However, the earliest and latest into your pregnancy you can get an abortion depends on the laws in your state and what doctor, clinic, or Planned Parenthood health center you go to. In certain areas, it can be hard to find a health care provider who will do an abortion after the 12th week of pregnancy.

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- WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
  
  5 years ago
  
  Good god you would be an abortion advocate too. She doesn't have to raise the kid she can put it up for adoption. At 24 weeks the baby is going to have a heart beat and be moving around. Terrible stuff man.
  
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  - leggs91200
    
    5 years ago
    
    Just think though, what if the kid grew up to be transgender? Good thing it won't grow up and end up like that, yeah?
    
    BTW it seems most people who get abortions do not need to be having kids to begin with.
    
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    - OofMasterBoi
      
      5 years ago
      
      Also, I meant I do not prefer you over Weird Guy, or vice versa. Tbh I don’t like either side, but favor you in this argument.
      
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    - OofMasterBoi
      
      5 years ago
      
      You know what leggs, I didn’t like you when I read the post about transgender stuff because I gotta agree with Weird Guy, but you’re right about the abortion. I feel like abortions shouldn’t be a choice, they should be MANDATORY, at least until the couple takes parenting classes so they’re prepared and ready for taking care of a child. Every child deserves to be raised in a loving home with decent parents and a sustainable income.
      
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      - WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
        
        5 years ago
        
        A mandatory abortion? Sounds like something Hitler would be for. Totally sick man. Its a god given right to have children. I didnt take parenting classes and I take care of my children.
        
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        RoseIsabella
        
        5 years ago
        
        Not, Hitler, but the Communist Chinese.
        
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      - leggs91200
        
        5 years ago
        
        Well, not sure if you dislike how TG live. I know weirdguy and a few others have some kind of problem with it but anyways -
        
        A lot of times the pro-lifers show photos of some regretful pretty well-off looking woman who regrets her abortion.
        What it doesn't show is the type of women who actually DO have abortions.
        
        I could care less what someone does. I do not personally agree with abortion BUT it isn't my call. Kind of like how some do not like how us transgender live - they bare free to disagree but they do not get to choose how anyone else lives.
        
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        OofMasterBoi
        
        5 years ago
        
        Sorry, I don’t hate how transgender people live, it’s just that I think it’s weird to be on the fence about it. Like, you either know you want to be male or female, it’s not a tough choice. If your on the fence, then your putting too much thought into it. Some guys are more feminine than normal, that’s fine. Some girls are more masculine than normal, that’s fine. Transgender shouldn’t be like choosing your favorite color, it should be like... something permanent (can’t think of an analogy). It’s a way of life, and not something you can tread lightly because you probably can’t change back.
        
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        WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
        
        5 years ago
        
        Just for the record I have no problems with how trans people live. I just dont encourage it. Because its possible the person will take hormones and permanently change their body just to one day decide to go back. I think the transgender movement is pushed upon this generation. Taking female hormones for men was unheard of 20 years ago.
        
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    - WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
      
      5 years ago
      
      Atleast the kid would have a chance at life. Its an innocent baby. Id rather the woman be aborted since she will kill her own baby. Why doesnt an innocent baby deserve to live but this scumbag does?
      
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        5 years ago
        
        If that's how you truly feel then you would be disappointed to meet people who are actively engaged in the Pro-life movement, and leaders in the Pro-life movement, because most people who are actively engaged in it do not hate post abortive women.
        
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        WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
        
        5 years ago
        
        I cant help it theyre murdering their own child. Why do they deserve respect? The pro life movement has to be politically correct to be taken serious. I dont. I have more respect for a snitch or a child molester than someone who aborts their kid.
        
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    - CountessDouche
      
      5 years ago
      
      Snap! I like you
      
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      - MissileExpert
        
        5 years ago
        
        Or the baby could grow up to become a MissileExpert, with a brain containing the intelligence to engineer a thermonuclear holocaust of Planet Earth. Wouldn't it have been nice to abort Adolf Hitler before he started causing problems.
        
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Vvaas

5 years ago

punt the little fucker to hell

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jethro

5 years ago

Well if you leave it to the Democrats, you can wait until the kid turns two and then have one.

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CapriSun

5 years ago

Your hesitation sounds like perhaps a part of you wants the kid. If not though stop fucking procrastinating lol, you can’t abort a baby after a certain time period, which is obvious.

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[Old Memory]

5 years ago

Fucking hell!!

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raisinbran

5 years ago

You could do your own abortion while you're working on your projects or talking to clients.

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