Is it normal that i'ma christian and i want to wait till marriage to loose my..

How exactly does one engage in baldy intercourse?

Sorry, your question got cut off. What were you planing to loose? A chastity belt or something?

If you can't even spell or use grammar correctly, it's best that you don't have sex at ALL, whether you're married or not. We don't need any more unintelligent people reproducing like a pair of rabbits in this country.

I generally don't care much for giving religious answers, but since this is a religious questions...

It's more of a question of purity. How much do you value yourself, and does your partner value you enough to wait until the both of you are married? This "no sex before marriage" rule was originally intended as a property rite (you do not belong to your boyfriend or vice versa therefore he has no rights over your body) and a defense against giving birth to children that will not have the love and guidance of a father from their conception, which is when Christians believe that life begins.

If you wish to maintain your sexual purity, then I would suggest not allowing yourself to be in a situation with your boyfriend in which you would be able to have the physical contact that you are already having, meaning, keep dates in public and do not encourage making out or heavy petting. If he is respectful of you and your religion, then he will not force you or guilt you, if not, and you are determined to remain faithful to your religion, then you must find someone who shares your religious beliefs.

Personally, I broke this rule. I didn't fully submerge myself into the religion at that point so I didn't see the reasoning in it, but after being married (which makes it easy for me to be able to use better judgement as I am sexually satisfied by my husband on a regular basis), it's easy to see why premarital sex can become a problem.

So it's your choice. If you're not a devout Christian (you don't attend church every Sunday and you're not strong in your adherence to the belief in other areas of your life), then keeping certain commandments but not caring enough about the religion to go to church won't help you, so screw it. But if you are devout and you are having these problems, then go speak to a member of your church counsel about techniques to control your urges.

Well, if you feel strongly about your religion and you really want to wait, then wait. There really is nothing wrong with waiting, and it's probably best that way. However, a sin is a sin. From a little white lie to murdering someone, it's still a sin, and there's no promise that you are going to go straigt to Hell right afterwards. I myself, am under the Christian belief and I believe that God will forgive us of all of our sins, so if you do slip up and have sex, don't get too worked up about it. But again, if you don't feel comfortable breaking the rules of your religion, then don't do it.

hate to break it to you, but there is no god. fuck or dont, noone cares. there isnt any hell to go too. good luck with the sex thing :)

Jesus wants you to wait because sex was made for two married people but in today's society people have lost all respect for themselves. If you we think of how it special it will be between you and your new husband. yes premarital sex is a sin because sex is for 2 married people

At the end of the day its sure decision dnt be bossed around by other ppl gd luck

This is a stupid ass question. If you were a strong Christian you would know that premarital sex is against Gods word therefore it is normal not to want to give it if you are a Christian.

Having sex is not just about penetration!!!!!

Free will = God's gift. Sex isn't evil, it's making the best of what God gave you and showing love to another human being. I can think of many more evil things than physically loving another person. Consensually of course!

I don't beleve in god,or premarital sex as a sin, so you're free to do what you whatn't but you must allways remember to respect your self and others.
I don't think you should worry too much about it though, when the time feels wright, and you're with the wright person, you mustn't feel ashamed it's all normal human behaviour.

It's up to you if you want to wait. If that's what makes you happy.
But you are missing out. I highly doubt, and many people will back me up on this, that you will go to hell. I highly doubt that place even exists.
If God does exist, then it is highly doubtful he will punish you for showing someone you love them. Pleasure, lust, sexual thoughts and love are not sins. It is common human nature.
I do not mean to cause any offensive. You sound conflicted so I suggest you think long and hard about this. Only you can make that choice and hopefully you will be happy in whatever decision you take. I wish you luck.