Is it normal that i stopped dating a guy cause he has a small dick?

Well I met this guy who I liked and after a couple dates we wound up at his place makin out. So he felt me up and put my hand in his crotch and he was hard but I thought hmm not much there. So I unzipped him and it was about as big as my little finger standing up. I played with it a little thinking it could get bigger but no. So I cooled things down and asked him to take me home and I haven't taken his calls since.

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    Honestly, it's disgusting how it's normalised that women can mock guys for having a small penis, just because they're women, and the people being mocked are men. Because apparently men don't have feelings, and so therefore it's ok to deride them for something they can't control, something that is inherently "wrong" with them physically (it's no different to mocking someone's physical disability). But if a man ever mocked a woman for having small boobs, then they'd always be viewed as despicable.

    That being said, you're not one of those women, you didn't mock the guy, you were respectful to him. You didn't continue things with him because you just weren't attracted to him, the reason being because of his penis. There's nothing wrong with that, you can't control what you're attracted to. Some guys aren't attracted to women with small boobs, and there's nothing wrong with that either (so long as they're respectful to them). I don't think you should've ignored his calls though, I think you should've just made up some reason like that you weren't feeling great or something, just to spare his feelings.

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

      whats with the lifted suburban karen?

      are you compensatin for your cavernous vagina?

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    • AsterBean

      You have a point. But me also pride themselves in the size of their cock and often metophorically whip it out in every conversation. Women don't do that with boobs. We don't compare our feminine qualities by measuring our boobs against each other. I am sure some do, but it's silly. It is silly either way. But men really brought this upon themselves.

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      • JellyBeanBandit

        Oh yeah, you're absolutely right. Men probably are more complicit with mocking men's penis sizes. I've thought that before alright, but I had forgotten to mention it in this comment. Women definitely do it as well though, I've personally overheard it a few times (I've even heard a rap song once that was entirely about belittling a man for having a small penis). But yeah, men are probably more guilty of it, similar to how women (rather than men) are often the ones who mock and talk shit about other women for how they look.

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    • I appreciate your point of view but a sick excuse is only temporary. He'd just keep calling to see if I was better. Then what would I do?

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      • JellyBeanBandit

        Idk, you could've told him that you didn't feel any chemistry while making out with him. Or that you're not in the right place mentally for a relationship right now. Just some excuse that would spare his feelings.

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        • I'm just gonna tell him to stop callin me because I've gone back with my old boyfriend.

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          • JellyBeanBandit

            Yeah, that sounds good. Be nice about it though.

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  • Meatballsandwich

    Double-standards. If a guy rejected a girl because her vagina is too loose, he'd be labeled a sexist, and it'd be considered body-shaming. But shaming guys for their PP size? Totally fine.

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    • Now hold on. Nobody shamed nobody. I didn't even mention it. So you think I should've stayed with a guy that I knew I'd never be happy with just cause I have to accept him as he is? I don't think so.

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      • Meatballsandwich

        Buy him one of those machines that stretch your penis, he'll be normal in a few months.

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  • kelili

    I don't think I would stay with someone who has such a small dick too. I'm not into sizes but a micro penis is a no no. However I would not just ignore his calls.
    I'm sure he knows why you are not taking his calls and maybe it's not the first time that this happens to him. That's sad though.
    I had a friend who met a guy online and travelled to meet him to find out that he had a micropenis. She slept with him several times but it just could not work because she barely felt anything.
    That's real sad.

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    • Yeah maybe you're right but what would I say?

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      • Lusty-Argonian

        Just talk with him be honest. Everyone deserves honesty

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        • I don't have the heart to do that. He's probly self conscious about it to begin with and to hear it from a woman would be devastating.

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          • Lusty-Argonian

            Ita better than just ignoring the guy. Thats just cruel

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            • Maybe you're right. I'll think of something.

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  • olderdude-xx

    Woman hate it when men judge their capabilities based on the size of certian things. Men hate it too.

    The size of any of those things has nothing to do with how good a person, a provider, or even a lover they are. Many men know (or are willing to learn) how to sexually please a woman - independent of their penis size.

    I think you need to look yourself in the mirror and ask if this is what kind of person you want to be. Focused solely on physical attributes... or do you wish to focus on how they think, their values, and if they are compatible for a long term relationship, would be a good provider and partner in life; or even marriage and having their children.

    You can do better than how you reacted.

    I also agree with Lusty-Argonian that you need to be honest with him and talk to him.

    I suspect that if you give him a chance that he may surprise you with other aspects of himself.

    It's OK to admit that you made an initial judgement that you now recognize was in error.

    I wish you the best,

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  • Curiouskitten444

    Ya l know they make hallow strap ons for a reason

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  • kikilizzo

    Well everyone has their preferences, not much to do about it.
    Just tell him you don't think it's going to work out between the two of you and move on.

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  • darefu

    I'm sure he knows he is small. Are you open to a poly relationship or multiple partners? Maybe he is as well. Could work out well if you're into it.
    Have a bull as a play toy and if everything else is good and works with this guy, who knows where it could go not many guys are good with knowing their girl wants a little more but I bet he understands. Give him a bj while the bull is have his way elsewhere at least you won't be gagging. Give him a chance at least to see if he's open to another player. That is if you are.

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