Is it normal that i touch my sister sexually? (not what you think, probably)

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First off: maybe this is weird in itself, but I have no other friends aside from my sister, who's 14 years old. I'm turning 21 and I'm a girl (kinda sorta). We've been best friends for four years now. I'm really asocial, so I basically spend all my time either alone or with my sister, playing games, reading or just talking.

We know everything about each other, and as I'm a really fucked up kind of person (hate myself with a passion, depressed for 8+ years, asocial, obsessed with ridiculous things like ensuring no one touches my stuff, always wearing men's clothes and short hair, kinda misogynistic... the list goes on.) I seriously dread befriending other people. Even if I wasn't the social cripple I am, I doubt anyone else'd accept me. Also, I'm introverted so it's just easier to stay home and retreat. And there I have my sister to cheer me up.

Lately, though, my sister has been going through puberty and we've talked really frankly about her period, masturbation, sexual fantasies and stuff. I've never experienced sexual desire, not really. I guess the antidepressants killed my sex drive when I was going through puberty. Well, I'm happier for it, really, because I loathe my body and everything about it and could never imagine having sex without puking, even if someone were willing to do it with me for some weird reason. (Did I mention I'm also obese? Yeah... But I'd hate my body even if I was thin)

Welp, back to my sister. She has been talking about sex and I've probably gotten a little too interested. Lately, while we've been sleeping in the same bed, I've kind of touched her sexually... but I never iniated it, she did. I was just hugging her, but then she wanted me to touch her, so I did. Even "down there", but I don't know how to do it properly, so not much happens when I try. She does like me stroking her hips, though. And she enjoys a little pain.

She's totally cool with all this, but I don't think it's normal, honestly. I could probably just stop touching her and let that be the end of that, but I don't know why should I want to? But let me clarify: I'm not attracted to her sexually. And she isn't attracted to me, lol, definitely not. But her pleasure sort of turns me on... really mildly, though, since I'm not sure I'm even able to experience full-on sexual arousal. And it's not like any other girl would ever want me to touch her like that.

One other thing: aside from this, nothing has changed between us. We're still friends and act precisely like before. And we don't kiss or anything, not even when I'm pretending to be her crush and lying with her in her bed. (Welp, another freaky aspect of it right there... oh well)

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    No.

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    • BluntsRolled
      11 years ago

      No.

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      • Avant-Garde
        11 years ago

        Exactly.

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  • Astrobro
    11 years ago

    as long as it stays strictly consensual

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  • Gelmurag
    11 years ago

    Humans, 8-26, male or female, experiment. It used to be called "kids will be kids." More often than not, first encounters are with siblings/parents/cousins/extended family.

    I'm not sure if you feel very protective of your sister or not, but if I had a younger sister, I'd rather she learns stuff with me than some stupid boy (or girl) that will just use her, or at the very least hurt her emotionally.

    I would just explain to her that you don't have those types of desires, but that you'll do what you can for her.

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  • chuy
    8 years ago

    nope

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  • Iwannasd
    10 years ago

    Dude fuck her at the movies

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  • LAgirl427
    10 years ago

    It's not normal but I think my older sister is hot. Ugh I wanna finger her so fucking bad!!

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  • kinda
    11 years ago

    it is not about the weight but i think kelili have a point...
    go to gym it will helps u feel happier...it will give u hoty shape...think about if u r lez or not? try to have friends..at the University (if u r at uni).. u r 21 ur sister is 14 !!
    anyway i think u have to be in touch with life more, it feels like ur life boring :((... i think u mustn't do something sexual with her! u r the older sister ..
    i think you have to take care of yourself..it is not only about ur sister coz we can see u wrought the story of ur life up there....lose wight,do sport ,have fun, try doing something new, meet people....Get out of ur cage

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  • IrishPotato
    11 years ago

    I'd say, go for it.
    Keep on doing it.
    You're enjoying it, are you not?
    And I think she IS sexually attracted to you, otherwise she wouldn't ask you to do those things.

    Just...don't have kids.
    They'll be misformed due to DNA and shit.

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    • MissyLeyneous
      11 years ago

      I'm sorry to inform you, but two females cannot reproduce. :/

      OP, I'm pretty sure it's not normal. However, as long as it doesn't get out of hand I'm sure it'll be fine. Your sister is growing up and she'll go through some phases where... well... she'll probably have phases where she'll be so horny she can't stand it. And that's normal.

      You on the other hand, as you are well aware, have some issues. How you wear your hair and dress is not a sign of your "social status", it's your personal preference. When you say you're afraid to befriend people, this tells me that you've probably had painful previous experiences with others, and this is also normal. You can't hide inside forever. The world is not as painful of a place as it may seem, and depression is easier to break out of then you may think, even without pills. But you'll never know what you can accomplish if you don't try. Use the wealth of the internet to your advantage.

      Good luck. ^_^

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      • IrishPotato
        11 years ago

        Oh right, I forgot that she was female when I was writing that.

        thanks for correcting that.

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    • IrishPotato
      11 years ago

      Disregard the kids part, I forgot you were female.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    I think that if you try to lose some weight you'll feel much better

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    • VioletTrees
      11 years ago

      I'm sure she's never though of that before.

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