Is it normal that i voluntarily stopped having sex 10 years ago?

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I used to have sex with many people , people from all over the world aged from 18 to 50. I could pick up a one night stand without even trying. I still have georgeous 20-30 year olds wanting to go out with me. Also sex workers are readily available and very inexpensive where i live. But around/atleast 10 years ago i just stopped.
I still look and get turned on by hot looking people. I still masterbate regularly and have a good level of fitness.
Am i normal?

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Based on 20 votes (15 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    2 years ago

    It's overrated anyway.

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    • RoseIsabella
      2 years ago

      I'm with you, my Scottish friend!

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    • idolomantis
      2 years ago

      I agree.☺️

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      I used to enjoy it so much. When i was in serious relationships it was very frequent and passionate. One night stands were very often the same and very memorable.
      But u might be right.

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    • 1WeirdGuy
      2 years ago

      Pfft

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  • Saturnian
    2 years ago

    What you are saying is that you can control yourself, I have been like this forever, I have sex with a woman I fall in love with, I can't do casual

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    • RoseIsabella
      2 years ago

      Casual is very dangerous for you, my friend.

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  • PurpleHoneycomb
    2 years ago

    It took me a few partners, both casual and romantic ones, to realize I wasn't really all that into sex. It's not much better than self pleasure and in some cases it's actually worse.

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    I think casual sex is too risky for something so meaningless. As far as I'm concerned the best sex has always been with someone I'm deeply in love with, and in the confines of a monogamous relationship.

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  • olderdude-xx
    2 years ago

    I learned in my 20's that a good relatinship was more valuable than just good sex.

    Also, good relationships tended to have decent sex, and in some cases some of the best sex I have ever had.

    So I look for good relationships first, and then may get sexually involved.

    Sex for just sex sake... does get old for most people.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    2 years ago

    There’s no point in having sex if you don’t want to and it’s nobody else’s business anyway.

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    • 1WeirdGuy
      2 years ago

      Dooont gooo chasing watteerrfaaallls

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  • Somenormie
    2 years ago

    It is totally fine to stop having sex.

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  • SwickDinging
    2 years ago

    I won't pretend to understand it because I can't imagine not wanting to have sex.

    However, if you genuinely don't want to then it would be ridiculous to force it. There are plenty of other things going on in life. As long as you are happy and aren't in a monogamous relationship with someone who does want sex, then I don't see the harm.

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  • Curiouskitten444
    2 years ago

    My question would be why dont you have sex?
    I think its fine either way but i ask that to help determine if its normal.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      The good side isn't worth the bad.
      I had a great sex life. It wasn't mundane, it was frequent and with beautiful people from all over the world. Often looked like a porn movie, with me prefering what many would call extreme sex. Going on for long periods of time. This was before internet porn was in everyones hand.

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      • Curiouskitten444
        2 years ago

        What you described sounds like a lot of good. How bad can things be to outweigh the positives?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          2 years ago

          So so many women trick men and try to get pregnant without telling their partner (THIS HASN'T HAPPENED TO ME) to keep a guy and if this doesn't work they just go after the check every month.
          Please everyone don't tell me to use condoms i wouldn't get into a relationship where i had to do that.

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          • Curiouskitten444
            2 years ago

            What the deuce. You can get preggies even while on birth control/having an IUD ya know.
            Anyways, so thats why youve stopped having sex?

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              2 years ago

              The chamces when using the control you noted when used properly are minimal.
              So you're at a point or so inexperienced in life and sex that a fcuk is worth being held over a barrel by someone for atleast 18 years. AGAIN THIS HASN'T HAPPENED TO ME but it has to almost everyone i know or meet.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    HOOOOWWW CAN YOU FAP!?!?

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